I have and it went really good finally off my chest after years of keeping it to myself.
It happened one morning laying in bed when I just randomly said I gotta tell you something, she was eager to know straight away, I struggled to tell her my heart was racing, I said to her you know how we got messy in chocolate on our anniversary? Well I like that, I like seeing you and girls on web pages covered in food. She said so what's wrong with that? I said huh? so u don't think it's odd? She said know I've done it with you and enjoyed it it was amazing.. I said YEH but I like to watch it on YouTube and photos on sites. She said my foot fetish surprised her the most but she said she's used to it know anyway. I was so relieved it went so good..
Then we started watching videos on YouTube so she understand what it was completely she just laughed n said that looks fun. She then started thinking what can when get messy with then she said spaghetti bol, so she googled it and found lane in spaghetti from messygirl she said that's amazing I'm so keen for it so in a few weeks we are doing it so keen.
I don't think she wants any mess over the head yet so I'll just take small steps at this stage.
Last night she went grocery shopping and came home with a tub of chocolate custard she said we should use this in the shower, I was like WOW I'm lucky she actually must be really interested in getting messy cannot wait for more.
So if anyone has got a similar story please share..
Glad to hear it! Sounds similar to my situation; debated telling my wife for years about my pie fetish and once I did she was totally cool with it, we ran out to the grocery store at 1 AM that night to get the stuff to pie her. Grats, friend!
My former fiancé found out when I didn't clear my browser history. She was really cool about it to be fair. She also found out about my other fetish for lycra. We experimented with both fetishes and she understood and got involved for me. It's certainly not something that she is into but did it for me all the same.....she's now my wife and still loves me all the same despit my non mainstream fetishes!
Nice to hear from someone into feet, as well as WAM! My girlfriend is well aware of both my fetishes, and is cool with them. Some lets me fondle her feet whenever I want to, and we've done many WAM sessions together. I invite all of you to go ahead and tell your mates about your fetish. Perhaps she (or he) won't understand, but there's a good chance she will!
Sadly, I have the opposite experience. My GF, who I've now been with for 5 years, I told a few months after we got together. Long story short she told me I was a freak, and has said it's too weird for her. During the first year or two, she couldn't get over it and almost broke things off multiple times due to not being sure she could handle it.
Since then, she's loosened up to it a little, and I've taken her into the shower with clothes on, but for the most part she totally ruined it for me with her. I know she doesn't enjoy it, or even have fun with it. Sucks, because one former GF thought it was odd, but was willing to try, and the other one actually GUESSED my fetish and was all for it.
MessyAnt said: Yes best thing I ever did... see my profile...
Looked at your profile ant she looks like a cool chick she gets very messy. How long did it take her to pour mess over her head. My girl said she dosnt want any in her hair but I'll give it time won't push her. She wants a spaghetti bath witch surprised me thought sweets would of been a pick above the rest but maybe savoury will be her thing. How long has your gf been getting messy ant? The only thing my girlfriend thought was odd was why is everyone wearing clothes haha I just thats part of it. How your gf first take it when you told her?
goodtimes said: I have and it went really good finally off my chest after years of keeping it to myself.
It happened one morning laying in bed when I just randomly said I gotta tell you something, she was eager to know straight away, I struggled to tell her my heart was racing, I said to her you know how we got messy in chocolate on our anniversary? Well I like that, I like seeing you and girls on web pages covered in food. She said so what's wrong with that? I said huh? so u don't think it's odd? She said know I've done it with you and enjoyed it it was amazing.. I said YEH but I like to watch it on YouTube and photos on sites. She said my foot fetish surprised her the most but she said she's used to it know anyway. I was so relieved it went so good..
Then we started watching videos on YouTube so she understand what it was completely she just laughed n said that looks fun. She then started thinking what can when get messy with then she said spaghetti bol, so she googled it and found lane in spaghetti from messygirl she said that's amazing I'm so keen for it so in a few weeks we are doing it so keen.
I don't think she wants any mess over the head yet so I'll just take small steps at this stage.
Last night she went grocery shopping and came home with a tub of chocolate custard she said we should use this in the shower, I was like WOW I'm lucky she actually must be really interested in getting messy cannot wait for more.
So if anyone has got a similar story please share..
Sorry for the spelling I'm pretty slack on it...
hurry up with that and add pies!
Pies never really did it work me dude, don't get me wrong if she said she would liked to be pied I'd be all for it but don't go out of my way for it. Rather liquid mess over her head.
I've told a few girls I dated over the years with mixed results, But I told my girlfriend who I'm with now and she LOVES it. LOVES it so much she created a profile on here and we tease each other about getting messy all the time.
my ex let slip that she'd always wanted to have warm honey poured on her. on our first date. you should have seen the gears in my head begin turning at the realization that i would not have to explain literally everything about this fetish to her, she already had a basic idea of the appeal. it had never once come up in any previous relationship of mine on account of me being bashful as hell
circumstances would pull us in different directions but god damn what a fun year that was
I know I don't post on here often, but had a situation arise yesterday.
My girlfriend and I were out getting some stuff for Christmas shopping/wrapping. And we were both "anxious" to get home and she mentioned handcuffs, which I had tucked away at the house. She asked me if we needed anything else at the store, and without missing a beat, I said, "Whipped cream."
Didn't expect a yes, but I got one. She asked me what else we would need to do "this messy thing of yours." So the once empty cart became a little more full with caramel syrup, hot fudge sauce, a tarp, and a couple pies. I will try to get pics and post them.
I think what I'm trying to say is guys, just ask. Yeah, it's not your "normal" fetish, but who cares? If she's up to trying it, that's awesome! If not, just be happy you are with someone that you like/love.
cbhpies86 said: I know I don't post on here often, but had a situation arise yesterday.
My girlfriend and I were out getting some stuff for Christmas shopping/wrapping. And we were both "anxious" to get home and she mentioned handcuffs, which I had tucked away at the house. She asked me if we needed anything else at the store, and without missing a beat, I said, "Whipped cream."
Didn't expect a yes, but I got one. She asked me what else we would need to do "this messy thing of yours." So the once empty cart became a little more full with caramel syrup, hot fudge sauce, a tarp, and a couple pies. I will try to get pics and post them.
I think what I'm trying to say is guys, just ask. Yeah, it's not your "normal" fetish, but who cares? If she's up to trying it, that's awesome! If not, just be happy you are with someone that you like/love.
How good is it once you have asked her and she's up for it. My gf is so keen to get messy in spaghetti Bol she said she's thought of it before but didn't think she ever get the chance. She's even said what else can we use and I said oatmeal, honey, bake beans,Apple sauce. She agreed to all those but she dosnt like any in the hair but I think once she gets used to it she might want to go further and get something poured on her head. Does your misses let you?
Well, we've only done it once, and didn't get to the pies. But we were in the dollar store just today, and we walked by some clear plastic tablecloths, and she said, "We're probably going to be buying a lot of these, aren't we?" So, that's a good sign. Nothing with the face yet, long story.
So happy for you both, I love reading stories like this! Seeing that you are asking the Forum what it thinks about your good news, I hope you won’t mind a suggestion from a stranger about how you might explore the subject of over-the-head WAM?
I’m a fairly committed Splosher (I need an ‘understatement’ font), but I don’t enjoy getting anything into my eyes, so I’d have to really trust someone not to get absolutely carried away if they wanted to pour things over my head. Mrs Goodtimes may never want you to pour stuff over her head, but if she does fancy trying it someday down the line, she will need to really trust you to do it in a way she won’t find uncomfortable.
Rather than trying to talk-her-around; could you offer to show her some of the sensations involved in a more familiar setting? You could ask if she might like you to wash her hair and rinse it with hot water poured from a jug rather than a shower-hose? If that sounds like a nice idea to her, then you have a happy and comfortable way for her to see how it feels to have something poured or trickled playfully all over her, and for you to show her that you’ll listen to how she feels about it and always do it in whatever way you agreed.
And, on an unrelated note, please enjoy this clip from Patch Adams in which, in a most surreal and touching way, an old lady is granted her dying wish to swim in a big pool of spaghetti noodles:
I told mine before we even got together and she learned to love it too to the point she had fantasies. Unfortunately she left me today, dunno if she'll carry the fetish with her or if she's done with it along with me.
I suspect the last one is what your girl is looking for. I'd quadruple down on the sauce, though. And if you have a Sam's or Costco membership, all the better.
my idea is wait till topics of kinks or u do sex first to bring it up. I never had any experience with girl to try this but thats my way of thinking about it