I was just wondering, if there are any umd'ers out there, who have got to talking on here, met up, fallen in love and "lived happily (messily) ever after"? I.e. met, fell in love and got it together lol.

The subject line says it all really, but I am a sucker for a happy ending and a good love story. Care to share??

Foamy hugs and cuddles
Jo
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We met on line, not here, chat led to a meet, and we have never looked back. As for the messy, that developed over time and is still growing.

Not quite. I actually met someone on here when I first came on. Saw her at a meet up and didn't know she was into WAM. At the time, I wasn't really attracted to her other than her personality.

We talked for a long time about everything. The simple things, the really deep things, and the just plain weird shit. Over time, I got more and more attracted to her. But I came to realize the interest wasn't mutual and she had other things going on in her life.

Now we're just friends who talk from time to time, but I wouldn't trade it for anything.

Living the dream. Found the ideal partner. Not only do we have a lot in common non-fetish related (both big gamers, love hiking, rock climbing, running, anime) but we also share some pretty huge fetishes, messy included. We met long ago and were friends for years with a little bit of attraction on both ends but were either seeing someone at the time or not interested in a relationship. After a few years we both finally found ourselves wanting to bring our relationship from friends to something deeper. Unfortunately this is about the time one of us (that fucker) had to move away and we went from being close distance friends to being in a long distance relationship. Luckily it worked out, I caved and moved, proposed and now we live in an open marriage where we are both secure with each other at the end of the day but allow the other the freedom of seeking something we can't provide (we're both bi... so biologically lacking in one department). It doesn't count as cheating if they are aware and a approving of it, right?

Maybe. I am in my late 30s and met a woman around the same age as me through a friend. About 3 years back I had a reading from a medium and I asked about my love life. She said you already know this person or you know someone who does. I thought I don't know anyone. Turned out to be true.
She is really cute and we have attraction and chemistry together. She is a very kind and gentle person as well as respects and appreciates who I am and the things I do. How we see the world is different and she gets anxiety attacks so that can cut an outing short. However there is LOVE and light.
Before I was lost for some time and when I started healing and opening my heart, that opened the door for us to finally meet. She had some things to heal from before as well. So we are two young adults building a healthy relationship. I don't know about marriage and all that yet. For now as well its nice to have some freedom and we are not needy people so it is a balanced relationship. Her anxiety can make things difficult though. Like all week I'm excited to see her, get ready for Friday night and then canceled. Ughh.

I have found my lust for messy has gone down because I was filling a void before. I still rub one out and indulge in some metallic painted women, just not like before. I have shown her pictures of metallic women and she was ok with it. She can be a scardy cat about a lot of things in life, just the way she is where as I'm more of an adventurer. At some point I think she will try gold paint with me. A few times after sex I got her in the shower and we covered each other in lotion nice and messy but she does not care for it. It goes against her social programing. I always encourage her to think for yourself!
There Rules are for THERE benefit.....as in the bureaucrats, corporations, law makers and so forth.

So this is where we are at in our lives and we have become happier and more loving people together! Yes I love her.

Met someone once, got into some pretty in-depth conversation, and found out that not only were they into the scene, they'd been lurking since the late 90s. The opportunity never presented itself to get down n' dirty for the usual reasons that make it seem impossible to a couple of broke-ass uni students with no access to a forum full of advice on things like mixing, venue choosing and cleanup. In hindsight, it was probably for the better: (And I mightn't have met Ms. Plonk, who is somewhat of a freak in the sack when it comes to messyfun. )

i met my soul mate 8 years ago at the london splunch, still together.
as the splunches were advertised on umd then i guess you can say we met through umd