Have any of you ever had experience with women who were "grossed out" by your WAM desires? "You want me to wallow in the mud with my clothes on? You weirdo!" My girlfriend has been quite willing to indulge my WAM fetish, I'm happy to say.
I guess I could see that. Especially if/as it gets to more "intimate" WAM, where cream and frosting and such could get in one's "lady business".
Just curious whether it's "grossed out" a la "Don't fling that mud at me, get me dirty" or "Your fetish is REALLY weird".
Rich - side note, i know, but in your experience, how much do the ladies know/ask before they show up? Or is it like "yeah, yeah, fetish shoot, i get it, ill be there" and then the reaction is "Oh.....wow. I'm going to be totally covered in that, multiple times....?!?!" Has a model ever then walked away?
I do agree with the guy who mentioned that at least our fetish is largely/usually fun.
I try to explain as much as I can beforehand... But you know, some models just don't ask a lot of questions. Like Megan showed and then was like, "Oh... I have to get hit with ALL those pies?..." Then confessed she never really read ALL the emails I sent.
But honestly, nearly every model says the worst part is the multiple showers, more than the mess itself. It's why I limit scenes now. You can tell when a model has shot multiple scenes (with me or any producer) in succession... There's an exhaustion there after the 5th or 6th scene. Diminishing returns to me.
And no, I've never had a model show up, see all the pies, and decide not to do it. [knock on wood] Some I can tell will probably not return though. But if you talk with them thoroughly beforehand, you can usually eliminate the models who won't be good. Most of my recent models fail to return only due to a lack of sales, rather than interest.
Love you, too
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