Hey!

I'm really wanting to do more WAM stuff but it's finding the moment.

I think about it but then when it comes to do it I keep backing out! I've cracked eggs on my head before, done some beans, pies to the face etc. and i'm wanting to try more and especially custard!

Does anyone have any tips on how to just get on with it and do it as I really want to!

Any forfeits/games i'll take into account too!

Thanks!

Have you thought about why you keep backing out of it at the last minute? Maybe you just don't enjoy solo wam - if you're doing it to yourself, it's not the "punishment" you crave. Or maybe part of you feels embarrassed/ashamed that it's not "normal".

Whatever the reason, as long as you live alone and have a shower to clean up afterwards, you've nothing to lose - so just go for it! And if you do find you don't enjoy it, that's OK too.

There's a fair bit of efford involved in doing actual wam, including both setup and cleanup. Sometimes a rational analysis suggests that more pleasure for less work can be had from watching videos, etc.

But sometimes it's worth just doing it for real and enjoying all the feelings and sensations.

Make sure you've privacy, phones off, doors locked, no visitors liable to call.

Get all the prep, including prep for cleanup including plastic tubs to drop any messy clothes in, done in advance. Then at the appointed time, just go for it.

My own advice would be to let things develop and enjoy the flows, etc, of the mess for a bit before responding to the sensations, to prolong the pleasure, but that's all down to personal taste.

And as piecub says, if you try it and find you don't enjoy it then that's fine too, there are lots of people who enjoy the content posted here, or even doing sessions where they stay clean but mess someone else up, there are lots of dffferent ways to enjoy this fetish.

Have you thought about combining it with something else you're into? Like for instance I'm into a bit of bondage, so sometimes I'll have a session where I get two 'fixes' at the same time (like I'll cuff my hands/ankles, or gag / blindfold myself for instance - and then slime myself in the bath), so I'm ticking my 'gunge' box and my 'bondage' box in one session. That's just one idea, keeps life interesting. I've had sessions where I've incorporated sex toys and gunge, certain types of clothing and gunge - and you don't have to look far to get some ideas on UMD.

I have often experienced the odd combination of feelings where the anticipation of getting messy (the opening the tins and cartons, mixing up some slime / slops in a bucket) can feel sexier than the actual getting messy. Sometimes I do all my prep, I climb into the bath and there's a few moments just before I slime myself where I'm already getting turned off thinking about the clear-up. I've got "pregret", where it's like I'm regretting it before I've started. But I just take a few seconds to have a word with myself and say "ok, you've come this far with the prep, you'll regret it if you don't go through with it - and you need to make this session really hot and worth all the effort that's to come. Nothing worthing having comes easily." and then I pour a bucket of slop over my head lol and am instantly in the headspace where I am lovinggggggg ittttttt and the "pregret" evaporates instantly.

I think DungeonMasterOne makes a great point too about preparation - in terms of prep, anything you can do to make your life easier is going to help with those feelings of "pregret". So having all of your supplies open and ready to pour; having clean buckets / trash bags to discard clothes / empty containers; having decent scrubbing brushes / sponges to wipe things down; clearing sinks so that you have somewhere to drain things or wash hands; having lots of big towels laid down to minimise cleaning afterwards, and the washing machine empty and prepped ready to run after your session. It all helps. The more you do it, the better / smoother the clean-up will become.

All the best x

One thing I really like to do is to set an actual date for the session. I don't really get the chance to do spontaneous wam anyway, but I love the anticipation, and build up of excitement as the days tick away, almost as much as the session itself. During this time I'm constantly imagining what it's going to feel like etc, so just wondering if that might help you; to give yourself an excitment building countdown.