So recently I became single again which sucks. The thing is before my misses left to go back home (being over on a working holidays, pandemic etc) she left some things behind to collect/throw out. One of those things was an item of clothing she always wore for me because I found it sexy and I love the look of them on her. Basically I have two question
1)Because the chances of her coming back a slim and I can also buy her a new pair, should I take the chance to to get messy in the clothes she left behind if they fit.
2) Has anyone else either had this same idea or actually done it?
You would need to first obtain proof that she definitely does not want the items back. If she messages and tells you to throw them out, then she's effectively abandoned them and you can do what you like with them. But unless that's clarified they are still her property and you're honour-bound to take care of them until she can pick them up, pays you to forward them to her, or tells you to dispose of them. Obviously the practicalities of the situation might make things clearer but that's still the ethical starting point you need to consider in deciding what to do.
Not something I've ever tried, mainly because I'm a size 24 in womenswear and everyone I've ever gone out with has been between a 6 and a 12.
DungeonMasterOne said: You would need to first obtain proof that she definitely does not want the items back. If she messages and tells you to throw them out, then she's effectively abandoned them and you can do what you like with them. But unless that's clarified they are still her property and you're honour-bound to take care of them until she can pick them up, pays you to forward them to her, or tells you to dispose of them. Obviously the practicalities of the situation might make things clearer but that's still the ethical starting point you need to consider in deciding what to do.
Not something I've ever tried, mainly because I'm a size 24 in womenswear and everyone I've ever gone out with has been between a 6 and a 12.
Well she's not replied to my messages, effectively cutting me out of her life and once told me to throw them out during a small break we had but I get your point.
Yeah, when my ex left me it was to become a dude, so they left 10 years worth of lingerie (much of it unworn even through they said they had wanted it at the time) behind. So I asked around if someone wanted it.
Jayce now has every article of women's clothing that was left behind here, and a good amount of it has been featured over the years (including a very expensive pair of Agent Provocateur pure silk panties).
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