I'm so excited. My wife is going to be gone to Arizona for 4 days at the end of January. I'll still have my kid, but he'll be in school for two of the four days. So the plan is to take a day off of work and spend the whole day trashing myself and then would have plenty of time to cleanup before my son comes home from school. This the first time I'll get an entire day alone. I'll probably have to do the shopping at multiple places the night before. Probably would get weird looks at sams club buyIng multiple sheet and round cakes at one time. I have to start secretly saving up for all supplies. And no the wife doesn't know about my wam fetish. I'm trying to get her to be more open to new things so hopefully later on she won't think it's weird when I tell her and will want to try it.

I'm excited for you, but man. Have you tried telling her at all? Is she super conservative or prudish? Why keep it from her?

Years ago, I sprayed some whipped cream on her during sex and after about a minute all she wanted was to go take a shower. I just don't think it's her thing. She's overweight and is self conscious about her body even though I think she's hot as hell, especially her large boobs. I'm trying to get her to open up, have fun, and relax a little. Just recently I finally got her to try some sex toys to spice things up. She also finally opened up about her fantasies after years and years of asking. I wasn't about to blurt our that I want to cover her in cakes and pies and freak her out now that she is just opening up me.

I know whip cream is always a go to, but it melts so quickly. Cool whip might be more fun and since it doesn't melt like whip cream, it doesn't get sticky right away. Take a look at the book on my profile. It might be helpful for you. Her opening up about her fantasies is a great first step. Definitely encourage that and her.

I'm a big guy myself, and I can say I definitely opened up more when the lights were out, and I know that's difficult when getting messy. If she's self conscious about her body, maybe combine it with a blindfold so she can put all of her focus towards the physical sensations, how it feels, how it smells, what you're doing.

I'm trying to get her to let me blindfold her and tie her to the bed. That way I can turn her into my dessert for the night and she can enjoy all the sensations that come with it.