Hi all,

While browsing the interweb, I stumbled across a magazine called Food Fetish. This perked my interest, however on further investigation I found that it's a magazine that shows photoshoots of naked women eating food (cakes, pizza, doughnuts etc, that have been jizzed on by a guy.

Personally this is not really my thing. However how do others feel, would you class it as part of the WAM niche?

Unfortunately, the nature of WAM can lead to so many misunderstandings and miscommunications as people try to make sense of something we've taken for granted forever.

What we* say: "Our kink involves getting messy with various foodstuffs."
What they hear: "Oh, he has a food fetish. I've heard of that. He must love mukbangs and stuff like that."

What we say: "We like watching videos of pie fights."
What they hear: "Ooooooh, he likes whipped cream action. A little dab of Redi-Whip on my nipple should do the job."

What we say: "My favorite site features models getting wet fully clothed."
What they hear: "A fetish involving getting wet? He must mean watersports. ...Okay, I guess..."

WAM will never be mainstream enough for non-WAMmers to fully understand. Hell, sometimes WAMmers don't even understand each other. That's why I've stopped trying to explain and just enjoy what I like and make what I can't find. Good luck out there.

* - Yes, I know "we" are not a monolith and some of us are into those other things.

No.

WAM involves getting wet or messy in things that are not body fluids.

So unless someone's getting covered / soaked in something, it's not WAM.

There are some crossovers - while cum is technically a bddy fluid, some would accept bukkake as a form of WAM, especially if done fully clothed.

But people eating food someone else has jizzed on first, while kinky, isn't WAM.

so frustrating to browse a wet and messy section to find its all just piss, i mean yes it is technically wet and messy, but its more stinky than messy.

...grumble over...

Don't forget massage oil videos.

WAM not being "mainstream" is just fine by me. As for the dab of Reddi-Whip on the nipples, I ain't gonna knock it. I showed my wife (she was just my girlfriend at the time) the Ali Larter scene in "Varsity Blues" and asked what she thought. That "dab" has since turned into full blown pie sitting. She still will never take a pie to the face, but I'm ok with that.

This is how I felt when I first typed in 'porn' to google and didn't find thousands of Human Garbage Disposal style savory humilation websites.