So, long time lurker here... Finally met a girl on my level who was willing to give getting messy a try, and she LOVED IT! I was open about my fetish when we started talking and she seemed mildly interested, and as we grew closer sexually she became more and more interested. The tip of the iceberg was her saying she wanted to sit in a cake or have me push her face in a cake while she came(both of which happened). We made a whole morning out of it. We made a couple of cakes together. She made whipped cream and iced the cakes while I prepared batter and pudding for pies. The cleanup was a little bit annoying but well worth the time we had... I hope you enjoy our set up and the teaser gif we made =)

She had a tiny claustrophobic moment from getting slimed but she got over it like a champ... It was a great time her and I will likely be posting more

It was! Already in talks about what she wants to do next!

I think this proves that it is ALWAYS the best idea to be open with your partner about wam and other fetishes. The best case is that they are really happy to join in, if not then at least it is actually a great way to show you are honest and reinforce trust in the relationship by opening up about it.

We had our moment like this about 14 years ago and to this day those "talks about what to do next" are the most fun part of the process outside of the actual session. We talk details, tease each other, suggest outfits if we're at the mall, etc. Congratulations! And thanks for sharing!

I hope it at least encourages those who are afraid to talk about it open up about it... It's always been a mixed bag of reactions but it's better to be open about it than let it hurt your relationship down the line

I'm honored... Didn't you used to post to this site? It definitely helps seeing real couples do these things(and enjoy them). Her and I actually work together and tease each other in various ways throughout our shift. We actually discussed getting clothes and different things to get messy in and she's into being dominated which adds another level to the experience.

Billiant! Perfect! Amazing! and of course sexy!

Prabably one of the best posts in recent time. Thanks!

Love it!!! And I applaud your honesty and openness about your fetish, it clearly wasn't without reward Nothing in the world like having a sexual partner who meets you on your level.

Seconded. Congrats, and: what she said!

Yeah we posted a few things a while ago, in our naive days. We keep to ourselves now but WAM is definitely a part of our lives, and as ridiculous as it sounds it's added a lot of depth to our relationship. I have that one person who knows EVERYTHING about me and accepts me as-is and she gets to be the only one who knows everything about me. The trust alone turns us on. Add in the rest of the fun stuff like the teasing and putting together outfits for each other and some role play and it's like we never stopped dating. We've even pulled some surprises on each other (another great thing about frosting - no splat). Nothing like getting your wife messy in her work clothes as she walks through the front door! Good times. I wish you guys luck. Lots of exploring to do. If you have any questions or need any suggestions feel free to PM me.

Congrads! Its great when you find a great wam partner!

This warms my heart!! I remember (and still love) the vids you used to share. True and deep intimacy is rare and beautiful. You are really lucky!

Very cool I used to love your posts you were definitely an inspiration man!

She's GGG as Dan Savage would put it. Have fun as you two explore and experiment with the fetish! The dude18 really did a good job of encapsulating the fun and intimacy that comes with this when you've got a good partner. It definitely keeps the spark alive, if you know what I mean.

Fantastic pics!

Good on you, telling my partner has been one of the best things I've done in a relationship. She's been open to ideas and seemed intrigued and willing to get involved twice so far. We often flirt over it, different ideas etc and it's given us a reason to actually stay in on a weekend evening, and make a night of it. Not to mention the trust that was built by finally opening up about it!

Whatever the reaction is from any GF to the WAM fetish any guy will gain kudos points for telling her purely because you're telling her something that intimate to you and she WILL know you are nervous about spilling those beans!

One of the things I've learned in life is women generally just want a guy to be honest, open and able to show her she's loved and their feelings.

Ok.......there's a few more things you can add to that, but you get the drift.

I (eventually) told my last two partners about WAM and it worked out really well at the time which surprised the heck out of me. Unfortunately both the relationships were too far gone by that point and I've learned the life lessons from that and I'm in good stead and ready for the next one (finally) haha

Honesty earns trust and that is the key to any successful relationship.


Really awesome you've found this and enjoy all the future shenanigans

As a woman, I can tell you this is 1000% true

I love this thread, it makes me feel so good about people and life!! Sometimes this forum seems like endless jerking off into a void. It makes me so happy to think about people (particularly men!) making themselves vulnerable and sharing this bizarre little fetish and getting amazing sex and honest, intimate relationships in return. Just make sure you are all returning the favor and fulfilling her fantasies, too!!

Well I feel seen.

I'm 50/50 on a good day haha so understand both perspectives :p

Congrats on beginning your WAM journey, and thank you for sharing with us! The GIF is a great sandwich, and it looks and sounds like you both had a lot of fun.



As a WAM couple ourselves (and fans of couple wam, especially thedude18's classic scenes), this thread and discussion about openness and trust as a foundation to any relationship is great to see here. Excited to see what messes you guys try out next!