Everything! The sensations, tastes, scents. Sliding up and down my fianc's body, interlocking our frosting-covered fingers, the feel of a pie-covered ass squishing on my face. It's such a sensual experience, and having a partner who is willing to participate is everything to me. She's my everything.
For me its how others react and enjoy my messes. I really find the entertaining and giving aspect almost as much fun as the sensation of it against my skin.
There are a few things I like about getting messy. Obviously the main one for me is getting pied but I kind of also enjoy the anticipation of waiting for the next pie to come. And I also quite enjoy the preparation. There is something enjoyable about making several pies and then knowing that they're all about to get smeared into your face. And then there is something enjoyable about seeing the end results, either as a video or photos, or even looking in a mirror at the foamy mess your face has become.
The squirmy, wriggly, half-embarrassed, half-scared, but at same time absolutely up for it feeling I get when the gunge is about to pour, or when I know I've got a question wrong and the forfeit is coming. I guess anticipation is the word? That and the feeling of abandon when completely messy.
That moment just before pushing pies or cakes in my face - just knowing i'm about to feel what i'm going to feel and knowing in seconds i'm going to be messy is a huge turn on to me.
I enjoy planning the session - almost like writing a story. Then when doing the session, I'm acting out the story I wrote, every substance was anticipated. The sensation is always amazing.
Getting my face or entire head dunked, or doing it to my partner. The zenith - entering my female partner from behind while dousing or dunking her head. Almost the zenith - being tied down and getting the goo spread slowly over my entire body, working from the feet up.
There is definitely a large range of things you will find. Never seems to be quite the same for each person. For me it's:
1. The feel of it on the skin. It's why for me clothed wam, while fine at the start, has never been a big personal turn on. Texture and feel is of primary important. I like stuff that coats me all over and feels like being gently touched all over. For mud, I also love the weight/pressure it exerts when submerged in it, or it piled on you. I pretty much can enjoy any wam if it fits this first criteria.
2. Humiliation aspect. Particular with pies/slime, that feeling that it's supposed to be "embarrassing" and something you aren't supposed to do. Kudos to pointing out that I'm actually enjoying it as a point of additional ridicule.
3. Loss of control: Having someone else control your fate with little/no input is a big turn on. Same with having control of it happening to someone else. (Pushing others buttons is also a big turn on for me)
4. While less about the wam itself, I have trouble enjoying it if I don't like the smell/taste of things. It really takes me out of it. I realize this is actually the opposite for some who want it to be smelly/gross.
There are of course other kinks that can be incorporated with WAM to make it extra enjoyable like bondage or gear. I also really enjoy open, outdoor way (particularly with mud). Something about being naked and naughty outdoors with the sun on your really adds to things.
Watching myself afterwards in videos or in photos. I once got messy but no photos or videos were taken, so it didn't do much for me. Seeing myself helps me relive the moment. And the humiliation aspect. Most of the times I've gotten really messy was in public.
Going to sound sappy as fuck... But getting to share what I closeted my whole life openly with someone without fear of judgement is amazing to me on many levels before we start pouring some slime. From there is the feeling of getting messy together and ruining clothes and each other and build to the come down when sanity returns lol. Like pushing that threshold. Shove that pie down my ass and mush it in really good does not have the same tone after it's over... But still something we did in the heat of it... Just the feeling of doing something so wrong that no one would understand but us in that moment is intriguing.
Honestly, my favourite part is the relief afterwards. Getting messy is like a primal urge inside of me. Jerking off to videos or whatever is fine but nothing compares to the real thing. Diving into a mud pit, getting plastered head to toe and just going absolutely wild - it's the ultimate release.
I still remember the first time I got muddy, It felt like a massive weight had been lifted my shoulders, almost like losing my virginity for a second time. For years I fantasized about that moment. After finally getting to experience it I thought I might've actually gotten over this weird fetish, but it just made me hungry for more.
I would say losing track of time and conclusion just allowing the moment to last in itself forever the end may be a memory but the process is shear Joy
That moment of clarity when you realise the situation your in at the end of a 'session'? (Would that be the word) gets a wry smile out of me. Kind of like a 'Im sat here in a tub covered in pudding and food dye, and now Ive got to wash everything up, dump stuff in the bin and chuck the clothes in the washing machine'
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