So I'm a guy (obviously) and I recently tried anal insertion with the handle of a spoon and found that I loved it. I'm really curious to try this out further and was thinking about maybe buying a dildo, but I am clueless in this area. Guys (or girls if you know) What what you recommend buying and what techniques and lube would you recommend?
Though any firm smooth dildo with a stop to keep it from sliding inside of you can be good. There are a lot of different kinds of dildos and plugs so it's good to find what works for you.
I generally go for a liquid based lube, it tends slide in easier and hurt less afterwards. It does dry out faster than a silicone based one, but I like it more.
I have experimented some with anal prostate stimulation using the Trojan Vibrating bullet and before a smaller Trojan vibrator. The vibration enhances sex or masturbation. I usually used it when covered in lotion so it worked as lube too. What I liked about these is just put them in and leave em there. I put a condom on sometimes to make clean up easier. It does feel good so do try. Those ones are cheap so they broke but got fair amount of use. The bearing ceased on the motor drive shaft. Not long back I bought a cheap simple vibrator about 6 inch long 2x AA and did not like it personally. I like the idea of put something in and leave it without hanging out. I am planning to try a prostate stimulator toy. There are some on amazon and around and would likely get better results. Variable speed is a plus, to find the resonance frequency, it really stimulates the nerves. To men and women be consciences of lubes you use. Water based by nature must have anti microbial preservatives. These can kill our natural good bacteria and allow bad ones to take over. Some people get reactions to these preservatives in lubes as well. As an example sodium benzoate, it is also carcinogenic and triclosan in anti-bacterial soap that does not actually work better than regular soap 60 % of our immune system is in our gut so careful what goes there. When we eat food the stomach acid kills a lot of potential invaders. Coconut oil is a safe and healthy lube for anal and vaginal. It naturally kills unwanted yeast and microbial catering to the benefit of the human floral biome. As a suggestion. Oils don't work for latex condoms though.
WAMMYJosh said: So I'm a guy (obviously) and I recently tried anal insertion with the handle of a spoon and found that I loved it. I'm really curious to try this out further and was thinking about maybe buying a dildo, but I am clueless in this area. Guys (or girls if you know) What what you recommend buying and what techniques and lube would you recommend?
I started like you with odd objects i use a toy regularly now and a proper one is definatly the way to go and safer its sensitive down there! also itll help stimulate properly have a look on some sex shop websites bondara clonezone (not sure where in the world you are) but its the way to and water based lube i believe is better for some toys i use one called spit
Love you, too
