Just a question out of curiosity, how many on here think they could give up WAM completely (includes getting messy, watching WAM videos, getting others messy for a fetish purpose, and producing videos)? I have tried before in the past but only had for a year or two before I was drawn back in. Curious to see the results.
Tangerine said: Just a question out of curiosity, how many on here think they could give up WAM completely (includes getting messy, watching WAM videos, getting others messy for a fetish purpose, and producing videos)? I have tried before in the past but only had for a year or two before I was drawn back in. Curious to see the results.
"Yes, but not watching WAM" I mean, I'm already doing this, and it's not that hard for me. I'm not a self wammer. Any enjoyable release I might get from it is immediately replaced by thoughts of guilt, waste, and general sadness. It's kind of like, "oh man this is fun" then when I get off.. "this was a fucking stupid, wasteful idea. Why did I do this?"
The one or two times I did it with my ex felt very different. They didn't like it, but there was still an afterglow of sorts. Like the difference between masturbation and actual sex I guess.
The longest I've gone without any sort of WAM or porn in general in my life was for a year. It was during my first year of marriage, and wasn't that hard then. I imagine it's easier for anyone if they feel as though they're getting sex regularly.
Probably, if someone came up to me and said, "I will give you 10 million dollars so long as you don't ever get messy again." My sub would just have to step up double time to get out my other kinks. RIP Barley's ass.
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