Hi every one

Earlier in the year in may my best friend told me he booked a bucket list activity for himself (learning gin production) to commence in the last week of November I joked 'snap' and he laughed asked my activity but I stalled in telling him as WAM is something I have kept to myself.

I am to be gunged for the first time in my life in the same week (last week in November) and recently he has asked me what my bucket list activity is and I am tempted to let him know.

My question to you all is should I tell him as I do trust him or not tell him as it might backfire?

Any advice that is constructive is much appreciated

(If i am too vague and you have any questions please ask)

Thank you in advance

What are you hoping to accomplish with your confession?

Do you have a sexual attraction to your friend and you are hoping they seem intrigued by your bucket list item and want to know more or participate?

If it's a platonic friendship, they won't care. If it's a deep friendship then again they won't care. If you like the person, then it might be an issue.

End of the day, the question is will it enhance your friendship or is it a quirk of yours? I've told some friends about it, and they've been cool about it. But I wouldn't tell everyone I know as some might not understand

You can:

- be truthful that you want to be gunged because it's a fetish
- admit you want to be gunged but claim that it's just for fun or some other non-fetish reason
- not talk about it and appear to do something else. A bucket list is a list so you presuably have other items on it.