Hi everyone,

My partner has been wanting me to try messy play for a while and sent me in this direction. I'm curious as it turns him on so much so I imagine it will have the same effect on me.

My friend said I should document right from the start, exploring something that I know pretty much nothing about.

Is anyone interested in that? Feel like it's going to be rather PG rated. My partner would also love videos.

How are you looking to document your exploration? Like a dear diary type commentary? Writing stories representing the experience? Sharing photos? Videos? Focusing on feelings post event or on the event itself?

Either way, pay most attention to the exploring. Make it about you and your partner. I'm sure whatever you're willing to share with the community afterwards there will be folk here interested in following it!

I would surely love to follow you! If the action/substances suit my preference i buy the videos. I already started following you

There is something unique to how people react to all new sensations discovering wam that makes this kind of videos stand out in my opinion. Love "adult action" combined with getting wet and/or messy.

Some advice from my personal experience: Have some testruns to set up your gear for shooting, if you don't have experience with that. By doing so, you don't have to worry about that/let it distract you during the real experience. By the testruns you can optimize lighting and angle of view, check for disturbing background noise, check how much camera standpoint reveals of you etc. I shot some videos with my iphone in the handsfree holder from my car attached to the tripod of my construction laser (speaking of being resourceful, haha) and was surprised and very satisfied with the result. I was lucky with the fixed lighting in my bathroom, ceiling spots, but added a desk lamp providing lighting from below to avoid shadows.

You could choose to get wet during these testruns to make them more exciting and fun without having to clean up or waste money on substances in case the recording is not good enough.

Best piece of advice: Don't let recording substract you from experiencing all sensations in your journey of discovery. For every experience there is only one first time so try to enjoy it to the max!

Have fun!

I think about that scene in the matrix a lot where the cat passes Neo in the hallway and I think it's a brilliant premise.

You should try anything with kinks that your partner is into, just like your partner should try anything you are into. There can be some different things with it. Some people get that shot of serotonin by how turned on their partner gets with something. There is an enhancement there. If that is your situation, then you can get that serotonin hit by any kink your partner is in to. If you get turned on by it and it becomes a kink for you, great welcome aboard. If you don't get turned on by it, that is great too welcome aboard.

Documenting your journey may be very helpful. Both for people who have not heard of the kink like yourself, and for people with partners that they have not discussed this kink with. Reading your experiences could help both groups in one way.

One thing I think you should look into is the clean up and what it means depending on the mess. For example, I had some messy sessions with a pro for a while. After the first one she told me that she could not wash the smell out of her bra. That was something I had not anticipated. In my mind you don't smell the other stuff that gets spilled on clothing once it has been washed and so I figured pudding would clean up the same way. She told me no matter how many times she washed the bra the smell was there. For the future sessions I brought clothes with me that she could wear and toss in the garbage. I would keep your first sessions as easy to clean up as possible. Don't start with cakes or anything with crumbs. I know people that use shaving cream pies and they clean up nicely. Personally, I do not like shaving cream. I stick to a basic pudding and whip cream pie in a tin. Clean up is still time consuming, but not as bad as some things. I have never done anything around slime or oatmeal etc and so I am not sure what the cleanup is like there. The other thing I would recommend is use a hotel room and request an ADA room. They have a bench to sit on in the shower in most places and the shower is bigger so clean up can be easier. I do leave a tip for the cleaning staff with the hotels because I do not always get it all cleaned up and miss some spots.

I do the same, consider clothing as "one time use" when getting messy. You can try to wash to see how they come out, but being aware of this avoids wasting your favourite (or expensive) clothing.

Advantage of cheap boxershorts is that they are thinner and better go see through (something i like). Wash them before use first, to get the starch out and they soak better.

Avoid slipping ot falling, some substances can cause slippery surfaces. Beans in tomatosauce on tiles for example. Or when you use plastic sheets to ease cleaning. Put an old towel or bedsheet over it (to be discarded afterwards).

Block drains with anything messy that might cause clogging and remove it by scooping or simply wrap it in the plastic sheets.

But your partner is already experience, so trust he knows the ropes

Co-sign

Thank you to everyone who has replied, they are all so insightful and it's also made me realise what a lovely community is also here.

I actually think I'm going to film my thoughts and questions and pop it up and people can reply with their own.

keep an eye out for it this week.

Definitely sounds like a fun way to explore all the fun you can have so i am looking forward to seeing it all

Take a read of the 'Spotless Sploshing' blog- it has a lot of very useful tips and tricks which can save you a tonne of time and effort.

Also the one tip I'll add; when it comes to disposal of mess, the toilet is your best friend. Compared to shower/sink, toilet pipes are massive and almost impossible to block.
(Half fill a bucket with mess, add water and swish your hand through it to break the mess into free-flowing suspended lumps, then it's good to flush).

Ask your partner what he is specifically into, and if you're ok with doing it, then give it a try. I'd say that's a good starting point. There's a pretty big spectrum when it comes to WAM. Some people are into the feeling, some the visuals, some the humiliation aspect, some are into all of that

Video submitted.
Super PG. Just my first thoughts.
Keep an eye out and would love to hear anyone answers.

This discussion got a bit into a slumber, and i feel i should revive it a little. Previous post were mostly about the practical sides of getting wet or messy.

So, about why i like to get messy. I have only solo experience, but for me it is about the physical experience of feeling the substances on my body (and naughty bits, big turn on), and i guess, feeling naughty as one is not supposed to use food to get yourself and underwear messy. Haven't tried pies, mud, gunge or shaving foam, only food as it is not available here or it's not attracting me.

I tend to favour savory foods for how their substance is/feel. Custard, greek yoghurt, beans and eggs. All different and fun, ok to clean, and not smelling too bad. Not so much into the sweet foods, as i don't like the sticky feeling that much.

Not into humuliation, with nasty or strong smells, but that would solo be a bit odd i guess. Also not with some one, as i don't feel a desire to be either dominant, submissive or humiliated. Though some one getting me messy and being in control would be a big turn on i guess.

Would love to cover a female in mess and, if she's into that, have messy sex with. For the visual aspect, how her body and underwear get messy, and how her messy body and naughty bits would feel when messy.

But that is just me, it's different for each person and i would just advise to talk to you bf to see what you have in common and give that a try.

Did you progressed on getting messy together?

Sorry have been very quiet, this was not the plan!

My partner has been away pretty much since I put the video up so there hasn't been the opputunity.

I've been thinking about it more and we've talked about it a LOT and it's definetely something I'm excited about trying.

I've decided on sweet over savoury - custard is top of the list at the moment becaue it can be hot and cold. I love the anticipation on what might come next.

Maybe I should do it alone first?!

Alone first or together is a tough choice.

But i'd say try to save your first experience till you can do it together. There is only one first time, and i think it would be great to save that to experience it together. I guess it can be very intimate.

Benefit of having a first session solo could be that you can focus on the experience, how it feels and makes you feel. Without interaction with a second person, which can be more exciting but a bit distracting from experiencing getting messy.

Custard is always good for a start! Keep in mind that it might leave yellowish stains on white clothing/underwear.