I love WAM, but strictly love seeing others getting messy, and have no interest in getting gunged myself. Last year I "came out" and told my fiancee about my fetish, and gradually we've went from "You like what ?" to playing with whipped cream and chocolate during sex, all the way to covering her in real gunge, and completely destroying her with food in the bathtub. Up untill now she's always said she finds it fun and happy to indulge me, but doesn't find it sexual.
Recently though, she has asked me to give her a treat for her birthday next month, and wants to gunge me in the bath, particularly with "things I don't like" as a way of revenge for the amount of times I've done it to her before. As I've said, I don't have any interest in getting myself messy, but I'm thinking of letting her, in the hope that it gets her horny.
Interested in hearing experiences of being the gungee as it were
Considering what a good sport she's been for you, I think you need to do it whether it turns her on or not.
I've got a feeling that because she knows that you don't really want to do it, and wants to use "things you don't like", it's going to be a lot of fun for her! (And *may* get her turned on!)
If nothing else, it's "Thanks" for her letting you get her messy!
AND, you may find that you enjoy getting messed by your fiancée, because you love her!
I've let a few girlfriends humiliate me with gross or savory foods and they stayed clean...it was such a different experience since usually they got messy or both of us. It was great and it turned us both on. Now I will admit that I enjoy letting my current GF get the best of me and humiliate me with mess from time to time. Being open to try new things has really helped our sex lives and it allows us to avoid lulls in the relationship. Our favorite is making bets related to our favorite sports teams. She graduated from the college that is a rival to mine. Every football and basketball matchup between the two involves some sort of messy forfeit. Last year I had to eat her out while she covered me in baked beans, custard, ranch dressing, and at the end she got to cover me in green slime (her schools's color) and sit on my face. While I was disappointed my team lost, there was a silver lining to it all.
To make a long story short, don't be afraid to try things she is interested in, I was never a big facesetting fan until we started dating and I did it because she had let me pie her numerous times. Now I love it.
KEGZilla said: I've let a few girlfriends humiliate me with gross or savory foods and they stayed clean...it was such a different experience since usually they got messy or both of us. It was great and it turned us both on. Now I will admit that I enjoy letting my current GF get the best of me and humiliate me with mess from time to time. Being open to try new things has really helped our sex lives and it allows us to avoid lulls in the relationship. Our favorite is making bets related to our favorite sports teams. She graduated from the college that is a rival to mine. Every football and basketball matchup between the two involves some sort of messy forfeit. Last year I had to eat her out while she covered me in baked beans, custard, ranch dressing, and at the end she got to cover me in green slime (her schools's color) and sit on my face. While I was disappointed my team lost, there was a silver lining to it all.
To make a long story short, don't be afraid to try things she is interested in, I was never a big facesetting fan until we started dating and I did it because she had let me pie her numerous times. Now I love it.
Thanks for sharing your GREAT, loving, experience!
I could tell you all about my messy adventures with my wife, but that doesn't matter here. No one can tell you what you are or aren't into...
I think NORMAN hit the nail DIRECTLY on the head. She indulges you, you should definitely indulge her! Take it as an experience that the two of you can share. Good luck!
Love you, too
