Are there any mainstream books that feature a female protagonist humiliated? Preferably humiliated in a WAM way, but I am open to other forms of humiliation.
Not sure whether it qualifies as mainstream but Love A Messy Business by Abbie Walton has a humiliation WAM scene in it - I don't have the link handy but you can find it on Amazon. It's a romantic comedy so you'll have to be patient to get to the messy stuff!
'Tight White Cotton' http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B003GFIVQ6 is a collection of short stories, at least one of which includes mess, which I think was tar.
'Penny in Harness' had some interesting mess too as I recall, but mostly it was incidental rather than the centre of the action. http://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0352332719