Ok so I know this sounds weird but is anyone out there just into getting messy with other people? Is it weird that I love getting messy with men or women? Like no sex just getting messy with each other.

Yep, me. Usually when Lady Jasmine and I do messy stuff together, it's all about the fun and the feelings and the look of getting wet and messy, without a sexual element. We quite often take long clothed baths together in the dungeon pool, and it's just nice to enjoy the platonic feelings of the water rising round us, soaking our clothes, half-floating in the water, washing each other's hair, and so on. It's just a lovely way to spend an afternoon, and pushing sexual stuff into it would just feel forced? Later, all clean and dry, the memories can be used for pleasure.