Messytime_Man said: I'm not a lesbian, but definitely willing to get messy in a simple, silly fun way
Come on read the room, this is a very specific request that you have ignored. Also odd your offer of messy in a simple fun way hasn't been made to any of the many guys posts looking for exactly that on here....strange.
We.need.to.do.better as a community on here listening to people, what they want and respecting it especially women or they will.continue to be uncomfortable and driven away.
Messytime_Man said: I'm not a lesbian, but definitely willing to get messy in a simple, silly fun way
Come on read the room, this is a very specific request that you have ignored. Also odd your offer of messy in a simple fun way hasn't been made to any of the many guys posts looking for exactly that on here....strange.
We.need.to.do.better as a community on here listening to people, what they want and respecting it especially women or they will.continue to be uncomfortable and driven away.
Curious why you chose to single this person out. The OP specifically asked if there are any lesbians here....two bi women, two trans people and one straight dude answered. So, yes a very specific request that was ignored by all and you went after one individual. It may have been more appropriate to either address everyone if you felt some sort of line had been crossed or not say anything at all and let the OP speak for herself and determine if she is offended or feels that someone was out of line.
Messytime_Man said: I'm not a lesbian, but definitely willing to get messy in a simple, silly fun way
Come on read the room, this is a very specific request that you have ignored. Also odd your offer of messy in a simple fun way hasn't been made to any of the many guys posts looking for exactly that on here....strange.
We.need.to.do.better as a community on here listening to people, what they want and respecting it especially women or they will.continue to be uncomfortable and driven away.
Curious why you chose to single this person out. The OP specifically asked if there are any lesbians here....two bi women, two trans people and one straight dude answered. So, yes a very specific request that was ignored by all and you went after one individual. It may have been more appropriate to either address everyone if you felt some sort of line had been crossed or not say anything at all and let the OP speak for herself and determine if she is offended or feels that someone was out of line.
Not looking to get involved in an argument, but to redirect the thread, the OP said she was looking for LGBTQIA+ fetish people to interact with so most of the replies have been appropriate. She just mentioned that she happens to be a lesbian.
Messytime_Man said: I'm not a lesbian, but definitely willing to get messy in a simple, silly fun way
Come on read the room, this is a very specific request that you have ignored. Also odd your offer of messy in a simple fun way hasn't been made to any of the many guys posts looking for exactly that on here....strange.
We.need.to.do.better as a community on here listening to people, what they want and respecting it especially women or they will.continue to be uncomfortable and driven away.
Curious why you chose to single this person out. The OP specifically asked if there are any lesbians here....two bi women, two trans people and one straight dude answered. So, yes a very specific request that was ignored by all and you went after one individual. It may have been more appropriate to either address everyone if you felt some sort of line had been crossed or not say anything at all and let the OP speak for herself and determine if she is offended or feels that someone was out of line.
JD and Messy Andi answered this perfectly. Plus it's about the intent the poster I 'called out' is a guy looking to get messy with a women. If it was just messy fun he would have responded to any of the many men on here looking for exactly that. Plus I would also say one of the main issues we have in this community is straight men hounding, harassing and ignoring boundaries. This was a good example of that.
Love you, too
Like I said, not looking to argue and know you meant well 
Take care!
