This was posted in the messy forum and got some interesting answers so I'm going to post it here with some modifications to make it specific to wetlook. This post will have the questions, my own responses will be in the first reply.
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in wetlook or seeing others in wet clothes?
2. Do you prefer to get wet yourself or wet with others?
3. If you like to get wet, what are your top three places to get wet?
4, How do you like to get wet?
5. Do you enjoy wet games? If so, which ones?
6. What was your first wetlook experience?
7. What was your funnest wetlook experience?
8. Do you enjoy wetlook for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it?
9. Have you found people in real life that shared this?
10. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink?
11. Is there a wetlook video you have as a favourite?
12. Do you like gradual wetting, ie: slowly wading into a creek or a pool and watching the colour change gradually, or do you prefer something quick like jumping in or getting pushed in?
13. Do you have a wetlook fantasy?
14. Is there a wetlook scenario you haven't tried yet that you want to?
15. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else wet?
16. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with wetlook?
17. Have you ever been wet in public?
18. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc...
19. Are colours important to you?
20. Is the style of clothes important when getting wet?
21. How do you like the wetness to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc...
22. Is temperature important to you?
23. What clothes don't you like getting wet in?
24. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught?
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in wetlook or seeing others in wet clothes? When I was about five. I used to watch the old TV series, Gentle Ben and often the kids in that movie got their clothes wet and I thought it looked cool. For some reason the kids' parents didn't care that they got soaked.
2. Do you prefer to get wet yourself or wet with others? If I had someone to get messy or wet with that would be fun - especially a hot cowgirl.
3. If you like to get wet, what are your top three places to get wet? Riding a horse through a deep river, wading through a deep creek, getting pushed into water totally unexpectedly.
4, How do you like to get wet? Sometimes in a creek or lake, sometimes in the shower, and sometimes in the hot tub.
5. Do you enjoy wet games? If so, which ones? Don't have anyone to play wet games with but on the off-chance I ever actually do get a hot cowgirl girlfriend... here are a couple of ideas...there was a story I read on a wetlook site a while back where the guy and girl played the card game of "war" out by the pool. Every time someone won a round, they got to take their cup and fill it with water from the pool and soak a part of the other person in the clothes they were wearing. For my own entertainment, I changed the story to give it a western-clothed theme and it was very hot. Another thing I'd like a girl to do is completely spontaneously and without warning, push me into water with my riding gear on. Of course because it was spontaneous, she'd jump in with me and we'd have to stay in our wet clothes for the rest of the day.
6. What was your first wetlook experience? We had a park near where I grew up and in the spring, the snow melt would produce small ponds that I'd play in and get soaked.
7. What was your funnest wetlook experience? Went tubing on a river in Texas a couple of summers ago with a friend of mine. We "forgot" our swimsuits at his house so decided to go tubing with our Wranglers, boots shirts and hats on. We had the crowd cheering us in spots from the banks and one girl told us afterward while we're standing there totally soaked that we were totally cool to have the guts to do that.
8. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it? Sexual.
9. Have you found people in real life that shared this? Yes. I have a friend in Austin who's also a cowboy who likes it. Found a few other online too but sadly, no cowgirls... yet.
10. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink? Yes. I guess because growing up my parents conditioned me to not get dirty or wet that it was somehow "bad." As I've gotten older and bolder, I've been wet now a few times in front of people and most don't seem to care. I mean c'mon, it's only water. People really need to get over their hangups.
11. Is there a wetlook video you have as a favourite? A movie called "Wild Horse Hank" where Linda Blair crosses a river horseback, and gets her jeans, boots hat and jean jacket soaked. Also the mud-puddle "fight" scene in Urban Cowboy where John Travolta and Debra Winger get their jeans and boots and hats totally soaked in the parking lot at Gilley's in Texas. And also the bar fight scene in the rain with George Strait in Pure Country.
12. Do you like gradual wetting, ie: slowly wading into a creek or a pool and watching the colour change gradually, or do you prefer something quick like jumping in or getting pushed in? Yes. Depends on my mood. I like the change in colour from a gradual wetting but I also like the spontaneity of a quick jump in and the knowledge you're committed to a total soaking and there' no going back.
13. Do you have a wetlook fantasy? Yes, to ride through a deep river with a pretty cowgirl and then go swimming with all our riding gear on... boots and spurs, wranglers, chaps, belt & buckle, western shirt, jean jacket or slicker, cowboy hat. Maybe a little fun in the mud too afterward since I like getting messy too.
14. Is there a wetlook scenario you haven't tried yet that you want to? It would be fun to do a polar bear swim in all my riding gear.
15. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else wet? No.
16. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with wetlook? I like to get messy sometimes too. Mostly mud but food on occasion.. I'd love to get pied sometime.
17. Have you ever been wet in public? Yes. See #7 above.
18. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc... A dunk tank would be fun. I would dunk my cowgirl girlfriend and then she could dunk me afterward. And we'd have to wear all our wet stuff home.
19. Are colours important to you? Yes. My favourites for getting wet are blue, green, red and burgundy. They change colour quite spectacularly. White is OK when wet but better muddy.
My favourite outfit on a cowgirl would be dark blue super-tight Wrangler jeans, a white western shirt, dark blue jean jacket, cowboy boots and black felt or straw cowboy hat. White looks good wet if she's not wearing a bra but awesome when it gets messy with mud.
20. Is the style of clothes important when getting wet? If it hasn't come across by now, western wear and riding gear.
21. How do you like the wetness to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc... Would love it if a girl poured warm water into my jeans sometime and let it run down and fill my boots.
22. Is temperature important to you? Cold could be a turnoff depending on the scenario.
23. What clothes don't you like getting wet in? Anything dressy. I'm pretty much always dressed western so that's not really an issue. I'm not a fan of wet socks or underwear. If I think I'm going to get wet then I'll go commando.
24. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught? Yes once. I was wading in a river in my riding gear when a bunch of guys drove down to go fishing. I couldn't get back to my truck without them seeing me so I hid behind a bridge piling in the river but one of 'em came over my way so I had no choice but to walk out soaking wet. I made up the excuse that I'd been out riding and got tossed off into some mud so I was washing it off before heading home. They didn't seem to care that I was totally soaked.
25. What clothes you prefer to wear to get wet? All my western riding gear. Wranglers, boots, western shirts, cowboy hat/belt & buckle, jean jacket, chaps and spurs.
26. Where do you do this? I.e. in the shower Shower, creek, lake, puddles.
27. What prep do you do before getting wet? Not much. If I know I'm going to drive home wet or muddy, I bring plastic garbage bags to cover my truck's seats with and towels to catch the excess water on the floor and stop the seat from getting wet.
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in wetlook or seeing others in wet clothes?
As a kid. I don't remember what prompted it, but I enjoyed wearing a t-shirt into the shower.
2. Do you prefer to get wet yourself or wet with others?
Never had the opportunity to try it with others.
3. If you like to get wet, what are your top three places to get wet?
Shower, pool.
4, How do you like to get wet?
Wearing my wife's sports clothes.
5. Do you enjoy wet games? If so, which ones?
N/A
6. What was your first wetlook experience?
As a kid in the shower.
7. What was your funnest wetlook experience?
N/A
8. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it?
Not into mess. But if you mean wet, then it's sexual turn-on.
9. Have you found people in real life that shared this?
No.
10. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink?
Only because I know my wife wouldn't get it.
11. Is there a wetlook video you have as a favourite?
My current favorite is one of Angelina from wetlooker.com in a tight black dress.
12. Do you like gradual wetting, ie: slowly wading into a creek or a pool and watching the colour change gradually, or do you prefer something quick like jumping in or getting pushed in?
Gradual.
13. Do you have a wetlook fantasy?
Yep, my wife and I in the shower or pool getting wet then getting it on.
14. Is there a wetlook scenario you haven't tried yet that you want to?
See above. heh
15. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else wet?
No
16. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with wetlook?
Crossdressing.
17. Have you ever been wet in public?
No
18. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc...
Shower head, cup in the bath.
19. Are colours important to you?
Yes. Dark leggings and white shirts are the best.
20. Is the style of clothes important when getting wet?
Yes. Leggings, tight dresses. Anything except jeans. Don't get the jeans thing AT ALL.
21. How do you like the wetness to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc...
Shower/bath.
22. Is temperature important to you?
Warm in shower/bath in the winter, cool in the pool in the summer.
23. What clothes don't you like getting wet in?
N/A
24. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught?
Nope. I'm pretty careful.
25. What clothes you prefer to wear to get wet?
Wife's tight sport clothes.
26. Where do you do this? I.e. in the shower
Shower.
27. What prep do you do before getting wet?
Make sure I'm home alone and going to be for awhile. Planning to dry the clothes and get them back where they belong.
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in wetlook or seeing others in wet clothes?
When I was a tiny child (I was born a wettie)
2. Do you prefer to get wet yourself or wet with others?
It's wonderful to have someone to share with, but most often I'm alone
3. If you like to get wet, what are your top three places to get wet?
Bath, Shower, Pool
4, How do you like to get wet?
Slowly
5. Do you enjoy wet games? If so, which ones?
Never tried
6. What was your first wetlook experience?
My earliest memory of getting wet whilst clothed, I was tiny, I wore a white and yellow striped and frilled nappy cover / dungree set with baggy legs and frilled cuffs. I had no idea why, but it felt amazing! That was in a nice warm bath. I don't recall my mother being there, though she couldn't have been far away. I don't remember being scolded for doing it.
7. What was your funnest wetlook experience?
I was home in the bath and doused my wife by surprise when she got home from work in all her office attire and entered the bathroom. Shock soon turned into revenge and she nearly drowned me, but it was great fun and she joined me fully clothed in the bath, shoes and all.
8. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it?
Predominantly sexual, but not always. Sometimes it's just nice to luxuriate in the water and enjoy an alcoholic beverage
9. Have you found people in real life that shared this?
Eventually and only recently, after 50 years!
10. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink?
Not really, though I keep it discreet. I thank my lucky stars I don't have a different and inappropriate kink
11. Is there a wetlook video you have as a favourite?
No
12. Do you like gradual wetting, ie: slowly wading into a creek or a pool and watching the colour change gradually, or do you prefer something quick like jumping in or getting pushed in
Always gradual and progressive
13. Do you have a wetlook fantasy?
I always wondered what it would be like to get wet and swim in a wedding dress, and I got to experience that just a few months ago. A dear friend of mine talked me into it. We hired a pool and swam in wonderful dresses together. It was her first time even trying wetlook and she loved it! We have got wet together a number of times since. She is a dream come true. (I am widowed but learning to love again)
14. Is there a wetlook scenario you haven't tried yet that you want to?
Just fixed it by swimming in a wedding dress. Nothing can top that IMHO
15. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else wet?
No
16. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with wetlook?
I do like messy too (as long as the clean up is easy)
17. Have you ever been wet in public?
Many times as a child, but never as an adult (except of course being caught in a rain storm)
18. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc...
I use containers to pour water over my partner. We call it 'drizzling'. She is tactile like me and loves the feel of the water dribbling over her skin, as do I
19. Are colours important to you?
No, though I do like the shine of darker colours
20. Is the style of clothes important when getting wet?
I prefer formal clothing, something that should NEVER get wet
21. How do you like the wetness to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc...
As erotically as possible
22. Is temperature important to you?
Yes. I like to be warm in warm / hot water
23. What clothes don't you like getting wet in?
Not much bothered with jeans and cottons or male attire
24. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught?
My dad once found my stash of recently worn very wet women's wear. He was a minister at the time and I thought I was going to be damned to hell hehehe. He was not impressed. I got a private lecture on Deuteronomy 22:5 about not wearing women's clothes for any reason
25. What clothes you prefer to wear to get wet?
Most often women's formal wear, silks and satins, but on odd occasions my everyday men's wear which is jeans and shirt. Ugg, so drab lol
26. Where do you do this? I.e. in the shower
Mainly in the bath, often in the shower and rarely in a pool
27. What prep do you do before getting wet?
Always make sure to have a waterproof container on hand after getting wet, to get the wet stuff to the washing machine without leaving a trail of water all through the house, or wherever it is I am staying at the time. Oh, and the heating must be on so it is nice and warm after getting out of tepid water. I / we do stay wet for a long time!
1.When did you first notice you had an interest in wetlook or seeing others in wet clothes?
I don't know when the first time was, but I used to get wet all the time. I've fallen into fountains, creeks, pools, etc. Playing int rainpuddles with friends and so on. When I got older and started noticing girls and how they turned me on when they got all wet it became a fetish thing.
2. Do you prefer to get wet yourself or wet with others? Lately, I don't really like doing it myself, I'd rather watch. If I'm at the beach or some public place I do like getting wet with attractive females.
3. If you like to get wet, what are your top three places to get wet? Beach, pool, stream
4, How do you like to get wet? With water. Heh.
5. Do you enjoy wet games? If so, which ones? I invented a game involving dice or a spinner and various methods of water cup, bucket, hose, jump in pool, but never had an opportunity to play with anyone. Dunking booths at carnivals are always fun. One year there was a Water War game at the carnival with huge slingshots and water balloons. I tried to get a girl I kliked to pplay. And I've not seen it return to the carnival
6. What was your first wetlook experience? The first time I really got turned on by a girl getting wet was at a high school football game. It was raining. I was in marching band and saw this girl from my Spanish class walking up the bleachers with her hood down. Her dark hair was wet and shiny. And she clearly didn't care and enjoyed being wet.
7. What was your funnest wetlook experience? This one time at band camp we had a big water fight and I dumped a big cup of water on this girl(a different girls than the one above) and had future fap material for years to come.
8. Do you enjoy wetlook for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it? Used to be just for fun. Now it's mostly for sexual pleasure. In fact watching people get wet just for fun makes me uncomfortable because I normally associate it with sexual turn on.
9. Have you found people in real life that shared this? I have several memories of girls in high school and college getting wet at water fights, at the beach or pool. I can usually tell when they really enjoy it.
10. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink? A few times when my friends found wetlook pics or links in their history. Trying to explain why they were all of girls getting wet and not hardcore porn was always embarrassing. They never seem to "get it".
11. Is there a wetlook video you have as a favourite? It's hard to pick just one okay top 5. Ariel from Waminstyle.com in the lake with a red jacket and white dress. Pretty much any video with her in it. 4. , There's a Wetlook Hunter video of a girl. I think her name is Erica. she enters the jacuzzi pool(too quickly) but goes under lays back emerges wets her hair over and over. 3. Katerina from Into the Water. Blonde girl in an indoor pool. She lays back and the way she breathes... Giggity. 2. Phoebe Cates from Fast Times. It's a bathing suit but I like those too. 1. Whichever new wetlook video I need to have right now (there's one on wanted I have my eye on).
12. Do you like gradual wetting, ie: slowly wading into a creek or a pool and watching the colour change gradually, or do you prefer something quick like jumping in or getting pushed in? Both. Sometimes slower is better. Sometimes I just want to see it all at once.
13. Do you have a wetlook fantasy? All the time. Every hot female model, actress, or person I've ever known has been the star in one or more wetlook scenario.
14. Is there a wetlook scenario you haven't tried yet that you want to? So many.
15. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else wet? Luke Skywalker in the trash compactor scene Star Wars. When I was 5 I used to watch A New Hope(before it was called A New Hope) over and over but that scene always freak out and my sitter had to fast forward. Now I like it because I learned that Lucas told Carrie Fisher that space underwear wasn't a thing. Lone white dress , no bra(yes I've turned this scene into a fantasy many times).
16. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with wetlook? Funny how it used to just be getting wet with clothes on and wet hair. Now I need a little Jerk off encouragement, or cei and somehow find myself the piss section of pornhub. I like to see wetlook combined with bj and other more hardcore sex acts it's hard to find though. "Wet"means something different in porn sites
17. Have you ever been wet in public? Is rain made of water?
18. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc... No just my tablet and the one my parents gave me.
19. Are colours important to you? Yes. I am an artist after all. I am especially drawn to blues and greens. Red, black and white.
Also hair color is more important than clothes color.
20. Is the style of clothes important when getting wet? I prefer casual, jeans and t-shirts, but like the occasional form fitting dress or skirt, and sometimes no clothes at all as long as hair gets wet.
21. How do you like the wetness to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc...
Frankly I prefer hair first, though I don't have much to work with nowadays.
22. Is temperature important to you? Cold makes those nips poke out. Warm feels better though when you're in it(and is better for the little swimmers)
23. What clothes don't you like getting wet in? Formal attire or women's clothing
24. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught? Mostly when parents or friends find wet clothes afterwards.
25. What clothes you prefer to wear to get wet? Jeans, Jean shorts, gym shorts, tee shirts, work pants
26. Where do you do this? Shower, in the rain, wherever (but not as often as I used to)
27. What prep do you do before getting wet? Make sure trash bag or something is ready for afterwards.(really don't lie dealing with that anymore)
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in getting wet and/or messy or seeing others get wet and/or messy? I remember watching The Love Boat when I was about 10 and seeing Tanya Tucker dumped into the pool and being intrigued. I also remember the Man From Atlantis captivated me. I also liked the messing that happened on You Can't Do That on Television.
2. Do you prefer to get wet yourself or wet others? (and same for mess..) I like getting wet and getting others wet pretty much equally - best if they both happen together. For mess -- I actually prefer messing others slightly (with dessert)
3a. If you like to get wet, what are your three favorite places to get wet. Swimming Pool (dive) Swimming Pool (pushed in) Swimming Pool (walk off edge) But if we were to take all pool soaks as one place - then tub is probably second and shower is third. Outdoor showers are great. I feel like I'm forgetting one though.. jacuzzi maybe as tie for third.
3b. If you like to get messy, what are your top three substances to use? I haven't done a LOT of mess, but of what I have tried I would have to say whipped cream, maple syrup and.. well it's not a substance but cake.
3c. If you like to get others messy, which three substances do you like to use on your victim? Maple Syrup, Chocolate Sauce and maybe.. cooking oil (except it tastes bleh)
4. How do you like to get wet? Diving into pool, walking into pool, jumping into pool, getting pushed into pool, walking into the shower fully clothed after work and turning it on, climbing into full tub, showering clothed in outdoor shower, spraying myself with hose, setting off sprinklers, getting tossed into the ocean at the beach, using vegetable sprayer at kitchen sink, falling into a fountain, bucket over the head.. am i forgetting some?
5. Do you enjoy wet and or messy games? If so, which ones? Haven't really done any wet or messy games - seems like an oversight. Had swimming races in wet clothes - and head stand competition of sorts! (inspired by wet femme and wetlook angels)
6a. What was your first wetlook experience? Pushed into the pool with my clothes on repeatedly at summer camp when I was a teen.
6b. What was your first messy experience? Shoved cookies down my pants after a failed baking session. Just out of the blue.
7a. What was your funnest wetlook experience? Hard to say. One session with my girlfriend where she dressed up in a sexy skirt suit and I chased her around until she dove into the pool was a lot of fun.
7b. What was your messiest experience? Maple syrup encounter with my long time girlfriend - we were fully dressed and had the session in her living room without any tarps.
8. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it? Sexual.
9. Have you found people in real life that shared this? I've only messed with one other person - my long time (on again off again) girlfriend.
10. Ever found anyone in real life you is interested in this? I've never met anyone who was already into wetlook or wam before I met them, so far as I am aware. But I have had a several people in life, who once I got to know - once I had dated them for a bit - got them interested. One gf in particular got into it right away. Wetlook hasn't been too hard to introduce - but I've only really had one close person - my current gf - who has ever wanted to get messy with me. Some of them did it only to please me to start but most of them found it a bit of a turn on for themselves independent of my fetish after a few tries.
11. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink? Yes. But I've gotten over embarrassment more recently.
12. Is there a wetlook and or messy video you have as a favourite? Wetlook - I really love that Pool Business video on Vimeo by Ellie Love. link: https://vimeo.com/66713921 It's a classic. For mess, I'm not sure.
13a. Do you like gradual mess, I.E. a slow game, or do you prefer something quick like a food fight? For mess I like the slow burn - slowly getting messed.
13b. Do you like gradual wetting, ie: slowly wading into a creek or a pool and watching the colour change gradually, or do you prefer something quick like jumping in or getting pushed in? For wetlook I like the sudden soak - live diving into a pool in all my clothes.
14. Do you have a wetlook and or messy fantasy? Yes - pieing threesome. Wetlook - clothed scuba dive.
15. Is there a substance you haven't tried yet that you want to? Cherry pie.
16. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else messy? No.
17. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with messiness? Roleplaying.
17. Have you ever been messy in public? Wet, yes. Messy no.
18. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc... Not really. But a dunk tank would be fun.
19. Are colours important to you? No - but I think I look good in black.
20. Is texture of the mess important? Not necessarily. It's more the appearance.
21. How do you like the mess to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc... Poured -- i like it poured onto the outside my crotch area when I'm all dressed!! Pies should be applied to the face first.
22. Is temperature important to you? Too cold could be a turnoff!
23. What don't you like getting messy with? I probably wouldn't like motor oil!
24. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught? Yes once. Caught swimming in my pajamas and underwear in my pool by the pool maintenace guy. He just said he'd come back later. i had high heels on too..
25. Are there any clothes you prefer to wear doing this? Clothes that I wear to work - so office wear. Skirts with blouses and heels is a fairly common selection for me.
26. Where do you do this? I.e. in the shower Shower, bath tub, hot tub - heck, even with the vegetable sprayer that's attached to the kitchen sink. But my all time favorite are swimming pools. Mess is often in the kitchen ! but I don't have a specific place that I use over and over really. But always inside - and most times on tile or another easy to clean surface. Mess I did once on carpet was a disaster to clean.
27. What prep do you do before getting wet or messy? For wet sometimes spontaneous is best - i love a sudden unexpected soak. But other times I dress up specifically knowing am i going to get wet. Sometimes I overdo it a bit if I know that - but more makeup on - add more accessories.
For mess - I need to plan more - since I like desserts. I pick an outfit, and I need to shop for the food. Sometimes I actually bake for it!