First off, I hope everyone on here has a very merry Christmas and wish everyone the best of luck in 2019.

Unfortunately as some members have seen, someone has just attempted to jeapodise my reputation on the wam scene, before I responded with facts and he then deleted the thread with his tail between his legs.

I have attached some screenshots of the thread and a message just in case anyone is wanting a nose, and partly to assist in keeping my reputation intact.

On another note, I have had a very messy two weeks, and have met with some awesome people to see out 2018 with a very messy bang! I have already uploaded some of these pics, but there are a lot more to come in the near future, so keep your eye out

Once again, have a good Christmas and a messy 2019

[Screenshots removed --MM]

Literally wonder what we have to do any more to get people to prove they are real.

You know when you do a credit check when you're buying a new phone and they take 1p transaction on your card to prove it's you? We should do that but for gunge meets!

Also HOWLED at the comment about being able to tell he types with his dick in his hands... I've thought that about so many people

I would also like to take the opportunity to thank all the users who have messaged me support over the last few hours, it is overhwelming.

Clearly I am not the only one who has experience with this user...

Negative and disrespectful... I wasn't the one who started all this was I? You started a thread throwing false accusations, forcing me to defend my reputation, nothing negative or disrespectful, just facts.

Message him directly, find out for yourselves

I saw the original post and thought it looked fishy, and even if he was right, not the way to have dealt with the situation

A pre-meet will do that. In my experience there is a 100% correlation between those who turn up for a coffee and a chat and those who then turn up for a messy meet on a subsequent occasion. And vice versa. 100%.

Must admit I hadn't thought of doing a pre-meet... but then again I've not been in the position where I'm let down or out of pocket - but I like the concept!

no idea who this gunge_virgin guy is or what his actual motives are but he seems only interested in the numbers game and his self promotion, his contribution to the site is just me me me

Gents, if you want to argue with each other just become an MP and do it in Parliament. Although, to be honest, perhaps a custard pie fight there might help matters, too.

prove them wrong then..

I can't tell you how awful it is to have something like this fall through. I once spent hundreds on someone to bring them to me.. months of chatting and planning and everything was locked into place.. then he disappeared and on the day he was supposed to be at the train station he sent me a text at the time his train arrived saying 'not coming'... I asked why and he was gone... took my money... fucker...

So if you're not the scum they all say you are.... prove it.... plain and simple.... laugh and tra-lee-la all you want but until you prove yourself you have few on your side.

Post content and contribute with more than just facebook style posts that don't mean anything and create a fuck ton of drama... post pics, vids, ANYTHING to show you're not just another social media whore... clearly you're ok with showing your face sooooo I say let's go.. show us the meat and potatoes and maybe you'll have a leg to stand on.