Hi all, This has been in a truth thread at GetDare for a while...but seeing as I want to be a bit more active here, I thought I would share and see if people want to confess their messy loves!
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in getting messy or seeing others messy?
2. Do you prefer to get messy yourself or mess others?
3. If you like to get messy, what are your top three substances to use?
3, a. If you like to get others messy, which three substances do you like to use on your victim?
4. Do you enjoy messy games? If so, which ones?
5. What was your first messy experience?
6. What was your messiest experience?
7. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it?
8. Have you found people in real life that shared this?
9. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink?
10. Is there a messy video you have as a favourite?
11. Do you like gradual mess, I.E. a slow game, or do you prefer something quick like a food fight?
12. Do you have a messy fantasy?
13. Is there a substance you haven't tried yet that you want to?
14. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else messy?
15. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with messiness?
16. Have you ever been messy in public?
17. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc...
18. Are colours important to you?
19. Is texture of the mess important?
20. How do you like the mess to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc...
21. Is temperature important to you?
22. What don't you like getting messy with?
23. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught?
24. Are there any clothes you prefer to wear doing this?
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in getting messy or seeing others messy?
Strangely enough I think I was about 6 when I first noticed weird feelings when I saw girls getting messy on kids TV, Funhouse was a favourite kids program growing up, loved to see girls versus boys and then have the girls lose and get slimed
2. Do you prefer to get messy yourself or mess others?
I prefer messing others, I only enjoy getting messy myself when it is a punishment or a dare set by a girl, or as a result of a game
3. If you like to get messy, what are your top three substances to use?
When I get messy I prefer sweet things, they smell nicer haha, but proper Gunge is the best thing to use, you can buy powders which you can mix, I also like custard, rice pudding has a good texture to it
3, a. If you like to get others messy, which three substances do you like to use on your victim?
Well if it's a punishment I like to inflict baked beans, mushy peas, Eggs work well too
But likewise I like to use the substances I like to on victims for the colour
4. Do you enjoy messy games? If so, which ones?
I love messy games, but haven't played many, messy battleship was the best, every hit meant you got the other person messy, every sunken ship meant an item of clothing was taken off
5. What was your first messy experience?
I can't remember the age, maybe 10 or something, I would mix various bathroom things like shower gels, shaving cream, mix it in a bowl and pour it over myself
6. What was your messiest experience?
This was the other day, I played RPS (Rock Paper Scissors with a girl at the weekend) fair to say I had more mess at my disposal...but it was still fun and she had hers too...there were eggs, yoghurt, thick cream, ketchup, mayo, a cake...and think that was about it...
7. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it?
I like both, it's part of the appeal, the humiliation involved in both parties as well as the sensual sensations when you slide your bodies against each other covered in mess, plus nothing beats delivering a pie, pouring mess over a girls head or filling her underwear...
8. Have you found people in real life that shared this?
Yes and no, the girls I did this with I think were doing it more to please me than having an interest themselves
9. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink?
Definitely...on here it feels more normal, but I wouldn't be shouting about it in the streets or openly telling friends about it
10. Is there a messy video you have as a favourite?
I like to see games where people compete to avoid the mess, with the loser getting the messy forfeit, Lostbets has some good videos for this
11. Do you like gradual mess, I.E. a slow game, or do you prefer something quick like a food fight?
My preference is the gradual mess, I don't like to rush it...but then again a frenzied food fight has its appeal if you have enough mess on hand
12. Do you have a messy fantasy?
Probably several haha, I suppose the absolute dream would be me and a group of girls playing a messy game together, I'm thinking it would involve a deck of cards, with forfeits depending on which cards were drawn
13. Is there a substance you haven't tried yet that you want to?
I've tried most things now...but need to experiment with real gunge more...
14. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else messy?
I don't like seeing men get messy, remember a teacher got gunged in my school once for charity, I had to look away
15. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with messiness?
Bondage is a great one, tying someone and messing them when they can't escape is lots of fun, enjoyed messing a girl in my stocks once... I think it goes well with spanking as well
16. Have you ever been messy in public?
No, I don't think I'd want to either...well actually, there was a work event with obstacle courses covered in foam, got pretty wet and messy then...but felt embarrassed rather than excited
17. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc...
Buckets for mixing, jugs for pouring
18. Are colours important to you?
I like bright colours like yellow, pink, green and blue, I don't like brown or red necessarily, makes me think of other substances...
19. Is texture of the mess important?
I like smooth mess that can be poured, but things like beans/rice pudding can feel great too...
20. How do you like the mess to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc...
I'm not fussy haha
21. Is temperature important to you?
I prefer warm mess, cold mess would be a punishment
22. What don't you like getting messy with?
Ketchup, anything too smelly like tuna
23. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught?
Not getting messy...but some friends did look at my internet history once and saw I looked at a Gunge girls site...still tease me to this day about it
24. Are there any clothes you prefer to wear doing this?
Generally just boxers and t-shirts if getting messy myself, but when I get girls messy I can like a variety of outfits, preferably tight like spandex, but also costumes like a school girl work well
25. Where do you do this? I.e. in the shower
Always in the bathroom, in the bath or shower
26. What prep do you do before getting messy?
Bin liners to cover the floor, ideally I would get a paddling pool, but can be hard to find the space for that, bin liners to collect the mess and the containers afterwards so I don't block the plughole
rblanks said: Hi all, This has been in a truth thread at GetDare for a while...but seeing as I want to be a bit more active here, I thought I would share and see if people want to confess their messy loves!
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in getting messy or seeing others messy? Before puberty
2. Do you prefer to get messy yourself or mess others? both
3. If you like to get messy, what are your top three substances to use? mud, slime, chocolate
3, a. If you like to get others messy, which three substances do you like to use on your victim? same
4. Do you enjoy messy games? If so, which ones? no
5. What was your first messy experience? mud alone
6. What was your messiest experience? sweet and savory foods
7. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it? sensuous and sexual reasons
8. Have you found people in real life that shared this? my wife
9. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink? only if family or other close friends knew, and not really that embarrassed.
10. Is there a messy video you have as a favourite? nope, I like many
11. Do you like gradual mess, I.E. a slow game, or do you prefer something quick like a food fight? Fast dumping
12. Do you have a messy fantasy? I'm living it
13. Is there a substance you haven't tried yet that you want to? not yet. As I think of things I tend to do them
14. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else messy? no
15. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with messiness? a bit of bondage
16. Have you ever been messy in public? no, and no interest in it
17. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc... buckets, small pitchers, inflatable pools
18. Are colours important to you? ya, they add something
19. Is texture of the mess important? very.
20. How do you like the mess to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc... not into the over the head thing much
21. Is temperature important to you? a little cold in the summer, warm in the winter
22. What don't you like getting messy with? anything that would be very hard to clean up from, or smelly, etc.
23. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught? not yet
24. Are there any clothes you prefer to wear doing this? no preference
25. Where do you do this? I.e. in the shower blow up pool in the house, or mud outdoors
26. What prep do you do before getting messy?
towels on floor, path to shower, gather things needed.
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in getting messy or seeing others messy?
Probably around 5 or 6 years old.
2. Do you prefer to get messy yourself or mess others?
Mess others. In my own videos I only ever got messy for comedic effect.
3, a. If you like to get others messy, which three substances do you like to use on your victim?
Cream of wheat slime, cake batter slime, xanthan gum slime. I also like mud, oatmeal and custard/pudding.
4. Do you enjoy messy games? If so, which ones?
I enjoy goopermarket sweep on GTG, forthe most part.
5. What was your first messy experience?
Probably playing in the mud in my parents' garden. I saw Marc Summers get muddy on an episode of Double Dare and thought, That looks like fun. I want to try that, suit and all.
6. What was your messiest experience?
Me getting messy? Probably getting slimed for HSW vol 3. Getting someone else messy? Probably one of the gals from one of my HSW vids.
7. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it?
A bit of both, actually. Part of my fascination with girls getting messy is that the victim is, in a way, disfigured and possibly kind of molested, but in a way that's ultimately harmless and temporary.
8. Have you found people in real life that shared this?
My first real girlfriend.
9. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink?
I used to. I've gotten very good at avoiding spilling things, because my family all know about this kink, and I'm afraid one of them might blurt out, "You spilled that on her because of your fetish." Occasionally, if we watch a movie together, and there's a wet/messy scene, one of them might ask if I'm enjoying it. I typically just grunt.
10. Is there a messy video you have as a favourite?
Probably the GTG ep with Mia, Georgina, and Emily playing me-pie-me, where Lisa and Georgina pull Mia (the winner) into the gunge at the end. I was annoyed that Emily got away clean at the end, but I sorted that out in a custom. Second place probably the first Messy Fun mudwrestling video, with the three girls in dresses getting pulled in. Third place probably one of the SlapstickStuff videos with Toshia.
11. Do you like gradual mess, I.E. a slow game, or do you prefer something quick like a food fight?
I think I prefer quick. I think the main reason I tend to prefer slime is the instant clean-to-messy transformation it affords.
12. Do you have a messy fantasy?
I have a few.
13. Is there a substance you haven't tried yet that you want to?
Maybe the chunkier gunge they used to use on YCDTOTI.
14. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else messy?
Actually, yes, as detailed in another thread, when I was really little, my dad was watching the three stooges on TV. It had to have been one of the shorts where they used footage from both pie fights, because it had the pie falling off the ceiling and Mary Ainslee yelling, "Somebody give me a pie!" I think what upset me at that young age was the meanness of the whole thing.
15. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with messiness?
I prefer skirts and dresses over other types of clothing or nudity. Maybe that counts.
16. Have you ever been messy in public?
I mean, the garden was right next to a public street. I guess that counts.
17. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc...
Buckets and a stepladder or chair.
18. Are colours important to you?
I prefer the first bucket of slime be green, but it's not a deal breaker.
19. Is texture of the mess important?
Somewhat.
20. How do you like the mess to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc...
Over the head, down the bra, and in the panties. If a sliming is long/messy enough I can imagine (and sometimes actually see) all 3 resulting from it.
21. Is temperature important to you?
Not really, though there are some good reactions to be had from cold slime.
22. What don't you like getting messy with?
Savoury food. The thrill just never seemed worth the waste to me.
23. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught?
Only that when the internet was new to our home we only had one computer, so inevitably my mother found stuff I had downloaded, and some pics from the JCPenney's catalog I had doctored in MS Paint.
24. Are there any clothes you prefer to wear doing this?
I usually prefer if the girl wears a dress or skirt.
25. Where do you do this? I.e. in the shower
Usually when I've gotten girls messy it's been in the back yard.
26. What prep do you do before getting messy?
Make sure the hose is hooked up and there are plenty of clean towels ready.
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in getting messy or seeing others messy? Around age 6
2. Do you prefer to get messy yourself or mess others? I prefer seeing others get messy
3. If you like to get messy, what are your top three substances to use? Pies with crust, cakes, and chocolate syrup
3, a. If you like to get others messy, which three substances do you like to use on your victim? (same)
4. Do you enjoy messy games? If so, which ones? Yes, I enjoyed Double Dare growing up.
5. What was your first messy experience? I covered myself in shaving cream.
6. What was your messiest experience? See above.
7. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it? For the aesthetic.
8. Have you found people in real life that shared this? No.
9. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink? A little.
10. Is there a messy video you have as a favourite? A few. My personal favorite is Mati Moralejo getting hit with a pie blast on Nickelodeon.
11. Do you like gradual mess, I.E. a slow game, or do you prefer something quick like a food fight? Quick.
12. Do you have a messy fantasy? Yeah, I have a few.
13. Is there a substance you haven't tried yet that you want to? I've tried most of the ones I sought out.
14. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else messy? Not really, but it kills my mood if the target is visibly angry or upset.
15. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with messiness? Yes. Chicken fights in a pool of gunge, where the losing team falls in.
16. Have you ever been messy in public? No, only in private.
17. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc... Just a pie tin.
18. Are colours important to you? Yes. I like white, green, and blue best.
19. Is texture of the mess important? A little.
20. How do you like the mess to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc... A simple direct hit to the face, and both sides of the face (for a pie sandwich)
21. Is temperature important to you? No.
22. What don't you like getting messy with? Just anything that leaves a foul stench.
23. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught? No, not yet anyway.
24. Are there any clothes you prefer to wear doing this? For girls: A tanktop or a swimsuit For guys: a suit and tie or a Hawaiian shirt
25. Where do you do this? I.e. in the shower In the bathroom
26. What prep do you do before getting messy? Not much, I would just do it in the bathtub.
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in getting messy or seeing others messy? There was a documentary on TV when I was around eleven, about some soldiers. There was a party or BBQ, or something similar, and I remember one of the soldiers getting stripped by his mates and the garden hose being sprayed at him (as a prank). That was the thing that sparked it in me.
2. Do you prefer to get messy yourself or mess others? Mine is all about games - and as i like to win, it's messing others.
3. If you like to get messy, what are your top three substances to use? I don't unless I'm made to.
3, a. If you like to get others messy, which three substances do you like to use on your victim? Whatever they don't like! hehe. Something that makes them squirm a bit. Spaghetti, gravy, cold custard
4. Do you enjoy messy games? If so, which ones? Yes. I like all games that are played for dares or forfeits - messy or otherwise. Poker, battleships etc, through to chess! Various types are on my profile.
5. What was your first messy experience? About fifteen. Milk.
6. What was your messiest experience? Losing a game with flatmates many years ago.
7. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it? Silly, mainly. I like the thrill of the game - the chance of winning, the risk of losing. Embarrassment or embarrasing others can be hot.
8. Have you found people in real life that shared this? Occasionally
9. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink? I wouldn't discuss it with my friends.
10. Is there a messy video you have as a favourite? Sexystew's vids are pretty damn fine, to be honest/
11. Do you like gradual mess, I.E. a slow game, or do you prefer something quick like a food fight? Gradual.
12. Do you have a messy fantasy? Not these days.
13. Is there a substance you haven't tried yet that you want to? no
14. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else messy? No - I'd only get upset if they genuinely hated it and they were forced into it. I'm not keen on those with dubious morals where str8 friends are lured into doing something for "charity" while their gay mate is clearly getting off on it and the str8 guy isn't aware.
15. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with messiness? Yes. If playing games outside of skype. Tickling, spanking etc
16. Have you ever been messy in public? No
17. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc... No
18. Are colours important to you? No
19. Is texture of the mess important? no
20. How do you like the mess to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc... If I am getting it, I prefer not to get it over my head. Makes me feel claustrophobic in a weird way
21. Is temperature important to you? No
22. What don't you like getting messy with? Mud
23. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught? No
24. Are there any clothes you prefer to wear doing this? Prefer boxers or naked
25. Where do you do this? I.e. in the shower Bath
26. What prep do you do before getting messy? none. It's normally a spur of the moment thing.
I like these, it's not to see how other people react to different things. What their likes and dislikes and why are intriguing.
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in getting messy or seeing others messy? Early childhood, earliest memory is playing in a mud puddle when I was like 2 or 3.
2. Do you prefer to get messy yourself or mess others? Both, getting messy on my own doesn't do anything anymore. I need a partner, preferably one that's really into it.
3. If you like to get messy, what are your top three substances to use? methylcellulose/lube, vanilla pudding, oil
3, a. If you like to get others messy, which three substances do you like to use on your victim? The same ones
4. Do you enjoy messy games? If so, which ones? Not really sure, never played one.
5. What was your first messy experience? See #1
6. What was your messiest experience? The singular time my ex indulged me in messy sex.
7. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it? The look, and feel trigger the parts of my brain that turn me on.
8. Have you found people in real life that shared this? Yes, a couple friends here. No one outside of UMD though.
9. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink? Used to always, for a long time until I stumbled upon this site, Wambabes, Wamtec, and MessyFun, I thought I was alone in the world.
10. Is there a messy video you have as a favourite? :sploshefinitely.
11. Do you like gradual mess, I.E. a slow game, or do you prefer something quick like a food fight? :sploshepends on the situation/mood
12. Do you have a messy fantasy? Sure, lots of them.
13. Is there a substance you haven't tried yet that you want to? :sploshrobably.
14. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else messy? Upset? I don't know if that's the word. Jealous maybe? Especially if it's a video or something and I can tell the person hates it. Meanwhile, I'd give my right nut to find someone to share this with.
15. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with messiness? ::shrug:: not that I'm aware of.
16. Have you ever been messy in public? I guess technically.
17. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc... My penis.
18. Are colors important to you? Artistically, I like them, but as for my own pleasure, I don't think so. Tactile sensation overrides my visual centers if I'm actually in the act.
19. Is texture of the mess important? Yes, smooth and slippery FTW! Thick like mud is fun too, but I'm not a fan of cakes, pies, crusty, savory etc.
20. How do you like the mess to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc... Full Immersion, preferably in a tub, making hot sweet whoopie with a girlfriend.
21. Is temperature important to you? I mean warm is a lot sexier than cold.
22. What don't you like getting messy with? Myself, men, pies, crusty things, expensive things.
23. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught? Yeah, got caught in my childhood by my parents in the tub in my clothes. Then tanned my ass good and told me I was a freak. Really reinforced those negative kink feelings through most of my life until about a few years ago.
24. Are there any clothes you prefer to wear doing this? For me, no, not really. I'd rather wear what my partner wanted me to, and vice versa.
25. Where do you do this? I.e. in the shower Shower/Bathtub IS probably the easiest place.
26. What prep do you do before getting messy? Make sure no one is coming over?
1. I noticed when I was about 8 from watching nikelodeon. 2. I prefer to get messy with others and have both of us messy but solo wam is always nice. 3. Paint, mud, and chocolate syrup. 4. I have never tried messy games other than painting cool patterns with a partner. 5. My first was solo wam with shaving cream. 6. My messiest was either tubs of condiments or lard. Lard is hard to get off. Also motor oil, I was young and dumb. 7. Sexual. 8. Some of my ex girlfriends got into it. 9. Sometimes, I wouldn't want people to know. 10. I love messygirl black grease and the asian metallic paint videos. 11. Both 12. Many 13. Metallic paint or black grease 14. I suppose jealous 15. I like bdsm 16. Public in mud. I once walked a mile covered in mud while drunk. 17. I've used buckets. 18. I like colors, yes. 19. Texture is very important. 20. Full coverage. 21. I don't like cold. 22. I like all kinds of mess. 23. My dad saw me and my ex get out of the shower with empty chocolate syrup bottles. 24. Naked 25. Shower or tub although I have used mud pits and a bed. 26. Get a sponge and soap. Clear the area.
People are welcome to answer as many or as few questions as they like, not opposed to people breaking them up, but wouldn't create multiple threads on the forum, wouldn't want to clutter the place
rblanks said: Hi all, This has been in a truth thread at GetDare for a while...but seeing as I want to be a bit more active here, I thought I would share and see if people want to confess their messy loves!
1. When did you first notice you had an interest in getting messy or seeing others messy? The first specific thing I can remember was playing on my porch during a summer downpour when my babysitter and her sister came splashing up in faded bellbottoms and tanktops. In general, I remember being young and liking getting "accidentally" wet in my clothes; and I was an adolescent when I discovered all the great Nickelodeon shows.
2. Do you prefer to get messy yourself or mess others? I would love the opportunity to get messy WITH someone, but that aside, I prefer getting messy myself.
3. If you like to get messy, what are your top three substances to use? Eggs, pudding, pancake syrup. 3, a. If you like to get others messy, which three substances do you like to use on your victim? Would love to pie a victim, cover in syrup, ice cream poured in clothes.
4. Do you enjoy messy games? If so, which ones? I've played battleship online, that was fun.
5. What was your first messy experience? Muddy riverbanks when going for wet.
6. What was your messiest experience? I've been totally covered in mud, and several self messings at home.
7. Do you enjoy mess for sexual reasons or silly reasons, or why do you enjoy it? Both. It's fun, and when I was a camp counselor tossing people in the pool and doing a small pie fight was fun just for fun's sake. But when I get totally obliterated I almost always cum.
8. Have you found people in real life that shared this? No.
9. Do you ever feel embarrassed about this kink? Well, I don't generally talk about kinks in public company...
10. Is there a messy video you have as a favourite? Not a specific one, generally like amateur and clothed.
11. Do you like gradual mess, I.E. a slow game, or do you prefer something quick like a food fight? Gradual.
12. Do you have a messy fantasy? Several other people, mixed gender, fully clothed, and a variety of sweet substances. Start with some sort of game, like spin the bottle or strip poker but the penalty/winning is getting some mess. Eventually the game goes away and it becomes a big messy cuddle and kissing party, perhaps with some stroking and oral.
13. Is there a substance you haven't tried yet that you want to? Marshmallow fluff, fruit pie filling, beans, a real bakery cream pie, cake, ice cream, applesauce.
14. Have you ever been upset by seeing someone else messy? No
15. Are there any other kinks you like to combine with messiness? Crossdressing; wet clothes; clothes destruction. Would like to try bondage, pegging, collars, threesome, feet/toe sucking, tickling.
16. Have you ever been messy in public? Haven't been seen, but have done it in a public place. Would like to do a "lost bet" scenario where the set up is I have to take multiple pies or similar messing in a public place because I lost a bet.
17. Are there any tools you like to use, I.e. buckets, gunge tank etc... No, but I'd like to try a gunge tank, and I'd like to get an inflatable pool, would be larger and more comfortable than my tub.
18. Are colours important to you? Not specific colors, but I like contrasts, like whipped cream on dark clothes, chocolate on light, faded denim going dark when wet...
19. Is texture of the mess important? Very
20. How do you like the mess to be delivered? I.e. over the head, in your underwear, etc... All ways, in face, over head, filling shoes then slipping them on, but also to feel the mess dripping onto my bare feet, both over and being poured into clothes...
21. Is temperature important to you? Not that important, though I try to give eggs time to come up to room temperature, and I've enjoyed syrup or honey when it's been warmed first.
22. What don't you like getting messy with? Things that would stain, gritty mud, mayo (the cleanup was not worth it) things with a lingering odor, cheese.
23. Did you ever have an embarrassing experience? I.e. being caught? Almost caught in the mud once, had just jumped in the river when people came down the trail. Not 100% certain they didn't see me in the distance.
24. Are there any clothes you prefer to wear doing this? Casual dresses and skirts, though pants work better for filling.
25. Where do you do this? I.e. in the shower Majority of time it's in the shower, a couple of times in a tiny secluded part of my yard that's no longer secluded now that the house next door is no longer vacant, whipped cream pies in the park just before dawn, riverside and garden mud.
26. What prep do you do before getting messy? Plan the clean up.