Don't be ashamed!
04/25/20130 Comments

After finding out yesterday that once again my suspicions were correct about something... I felt compelled to write a little something about it.

Sometimes, in fact quite often, right after having had a session with me, the persons username will vanish. They have disabled or deleted their account. This is usually because of a few variations of post session guilt, and I do wish people wouldn't do this and beat themselves up over it like that. I will always ask the person and try and make sure they are OK - and I always get told they feel bad, they feel ashamed, were planning to leave the websites and give up the fetish after one last session with me.

But hey... it doesn't work like that. It's a fetish and it isn't going to go away. It's part of you forever, and may grow, change, evolve slightly... but not go away entirely. It's also normal to have a fetish or something that really does it for you... so please celebrate and enjoy the fact that your fetish is one of the most lighthearted, fun and amazingly gentle and lovely ones there could possibly be.

It's pretty easy to gently introduce to a partner too, and trust me, it's really not that weird! It's just one step on from something a lot of people do - food play. Like the 9 and a half weeks film... getting a bit raunchy with some food use.

It's so fun and silly and gentle and utterly playful and harmless... really it's nothing at all to be ashamed of.

I don't mean everyone should go shouting it from the rooftops or anything, but certainly don't feel bad about it, or bad about yourself because of it. Embrace it, enjoy it. Life's too short to feel bad and try to deny it and deny yourself the pleasure of indulging.

You're not weird!

And you're not alone either.