So after being into WAM/Sploshing for 20+ years I have realised this is something that will stay with me till the day I die. Sometimes it lays dormant for years then it comes back with a vengeance, either way I know I will not grow out of it & I have to just deal with living with it good or the bad feelings that come with it.

Last year I done a meet that I do not regret but wish I done it with a closer person that knew me & what I really wanted. It was clumsy & awkward at times but glad I did it, just wish I hadn't rushed into it :/

I regret so much not entering a wam/sploshing contract years back with a good friend "J" but it was a new found thing for me to find other people "liking & enjoying" getting messy in the early 90's let alone it being alongside a sexual feeling that I thought I was weird or a freak so now I am just taking the moment when it comes along & enjoying the feeling rather than the guilt.

I am not interested in any sexual meets as I have what I need at home with my husband who is well aware of my fetish & this site, he is just not a wammer although he is learning to please me ...To try & get your partner to participate in a fetish that just doesn't float their boat is not an easy one & with the mess involved its not an quick clean up nor practical when sharing a home with a teenager & one in his twenties. So I am just interested in just normal or wam related chats maybe genuine local meet ups (no wam involved nor wanted) & if we clicked then who knows what could be on the agenda over time.

I am just trying to enjoy my time here on this planet & make the most of each morning I am lucky to wake up too.