I am SO looking forward to this weekend. Sadly, I've not been able to visit my favourite nighttime mud place this year, (at least not yet!) and opportunities for indoor fun have been sparce. This coming Saturday though sees a chance for me to drag out my tarp-covered mattress for a blissful wallow in the goo. I won't say anymore; I like to keep things a surprise, (for my legions of fans hahaha!) suffice to say pics and clips will follow soon. Can't wait!

And so the last few days have been a gradually increasing ball of excitement for me as I anticipate the delights to come. In today's heat I even found myself with the irresistable urge to get naked in a friend's garden! They were away for the day, so I crept into the shade of their overgrown shrubbery, and stripped off, rubbing my hands over my body as I imagined myself plastered in mess.

Anyone who follows my antics knows how I love to eake out my pleasure as long as possible. It's always been that way for me, partly I think because I prefer the use of lots of mess. This means clean-ups can be a real test of endurance, so I try and make my sessions last as long as possible. But it's it's also because I just love being messy so damn much. I'd do it all day if I could. So one of the gifts I inadvertently learnt from my fetish, through years of play, right from the very beginning; was the pleasure to be had in postponing ejaculation.

Which brings me onto something I've been practising for a long time now, though I'm still very much a beginner I'm sure; the art of the multi orgasmic man. It's actually a real thing. As a teenager I was led , like most of us, to equate ejaculation with orgasm, but they're actually two very separate things. I won't go into the health side of this, ( it's a huge subject,) but ejaculation usually ends in overbearing tiredness and also the end of pleasure. Taoist sexual techniques encourage not only the joys of learning to orgasm without cumming, (which means you can go for hours if you want!) but also how to circulate the energy away from the genitals and into the rest of the body where you begin to enter the realms of whole body orgasms!
If anyone wants to know more I can recommend a good book on the subject.