Although we're still being buffeted by high winds here in southern UK its heartening to see signs of spring everywhere. Maybe opportunities for outdoor fun aren't too far away. Certainly, I'm continuing in my preparations for something special indoors this summer if circumstances allow, but I cant wait to get outdoors. There's one area of mud locally I've been wanting to try for years. It'll need to be under dark alas, but it looks amazing; I cant believe I've not tried it before.
I've been reading an interesting book recently by a guy called Mantak Chia on "The Multi-Orgasmic Man." I think I'm a long way still from experiancing what the books fully on about, but it has some great chapters on increasing the levels and duration of sexual arousal for both sexes. Maybe the book really resonates with me. All those long, drawn out wallows in mud and other mess over the years; the joy of it for me has always been to savour it for as long as possible. Not that I'm against the odd quickie every now and then, ( especially if the dreaded public are looming over the horizon!) But mess play for me has always been about intensifying my pleasure every way I can; "losing" myself in it, focusing all my attention on the sensations and other parts of the experiance, so the edge-of-orgasm feeling rolls on and on for as long as I can sustain it. In a way, I'm kind of a bit anti-ejaculation, always have been, for when that happens the fun stops. As the book explains, curtailing how often you ejaculate has numerous health benefits too. Anyway, it's my kind of book. I already feel it's given a whole new depth to my sexual play and cant wait to bring that to my messy sessions too.