Is it even possible to have too much,

Im of the ilk that its possible to have too much, you see, for me, I love the build up and knowing a sexy clean formal outfit is going to get trashed as well as actually doing it, and the more formal and realistic the situation the better for me.

When my outfit is trashed, thats when it changes, dont get me wrong here, I also LOVE the feel of mess running everywhere and eating cake of my lovely blouses - but for me while still very enjoyable, its just different to the well, fore play.

And there are few situations when you can really cover your blouse in lots of mess is any sort of realistic situation falling into a mud puddle, frantically looking for your engagement ring in the cake maybe?

For me, too much mess spoils part of the fun as I cant relate. I know hardly any WAM is possible with any semblance of reality, but I love the story - I dont know if Im unique in that regard but for me its partly emotional obliviously to a necessity, Ill happily pie myself silly but I just feel like this bypasses on a whole other very sensual dimension to the fetish.