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Experiences with WAM Part Two
By Moopup
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Gonna start this off by talking about two of my old scout leaders as they play a big part in my WAM development, one of them in particular play a very big role.

So the first scout leader I wanna talk about is Caitriona. She was there from my very first day at the scouts. She was really young herself then, roughly around 17. Slim with an athletic build, blond hair, pale skin and brown eyes. Very, very pretty. Super popular and everyone loved her, including me.

We used to have this self development type project where a kid would get a scout leader to take charge of them and oversee their personal development. So they'd outline goals for you and how they intend to fulfil those goals etc.
In my first year, I, like most of the other kids opted to ask the main scout leader who was this very friendly woman who was probably in her mid 40s. Makes sense since she's the one we were all most familiar with starting off.
However in my second year I asked Caitriona to oversee and be in charge of me and she very happily accepted.

During that year we went to this fair/convention place and during it we were allowed to split off and look about at whatever we wanted provided we had an adult with us.
Caitriona accompanied me as I wanted to have a look at this arcade section they had. They had loads of different machines there but the arcade cabinets were what I was interested in.
One of the machines I came across looked really strange and out of place. It was just a clear tank with a seat inside and outside it there was a slot for coins to go into and big red button.
I ask Caitriona what it's for and she says "it's a gunge tank, you put your money in and somebody sits on that seat then someone else presses this button and the person inside gets really messy"
I'd heard all I needed to hear to know I wanted to get away from it ASAP but before I could move Caitriona points to the tank and asks me sincerely "do you want to get gunged?"
To which I just shake my head saying no.
Caitriona then says "are you sure? You don't have to worry about getting messy, I'll take you back to the den afterwards and I can clean you up, change your clothes and we can head back out again" (the den is name of the place the where scouts meet up)
I then tell her that I don't like mess and she says something along the lines of "that's fine you don't have to get messy if you don't want to. Just thought it could be a fun experience for you. If you change your mind let me know"
Now nothing happened that night, I don't even think the tank even got used either but after that she knew I didn't like mess, so when I mentioned in part one that I managed to escape loads of messy events and even ones where it was a fundraiser/charity event and I was nominated to be gunged, I very often got out of those because of Caitriona.
Needless to say, I was a big fan of her.

Now about 6 months before the new "regime" of scouts was about to begin there was a slow bleed in phase where the would be new scout leaders would work as volunteers with the old regime scout leaders.
Caitriona had always been there though and one week I remember coming in and excitedly running over to her to tell her something.
Only when I got closer to her did I realise this wasn't Caitriona at all. She looked somewhat similar though.
She was around the same height, same slim athletic build, was 2 or 3 years older than Caitriona and had sandy blonde, pale skin and blue eyes.
Again very pretty, however very different vibe to her than Caitriona. Caitriona was super friendly, expressive and very outgoing.
This girl however was quite the opposite.
She wasn't great with kids tbh but she was a great scout leader. She really didn't smile much at all however when she did you could tell it was really genuine.
She also spoke in quite a monotone voice when talking to the kids too.
For whatever reason she took an instant shine to me even though I'd confused her for someone else. She always smiled when talking to me and even her tone of voice had a bit of energy to it.
Her name was Yvonne and she ended being the main head scout whenever I left the scouts however at this point she was just one of the leaders.
I know a lot of the other kids found her to be quite cold as she wasn't open for negotiations on things.
For example she was was very insistent on uniform and presentation of it. Before she came in uniform was almost optional unless it was for some kind of event where the scouts were being represented. Cub uniform (I was a cub for about 6 months when they came in) was quite similar to our scout uniform but we wore a plain navy t-shirt instead of a short sleeve polo shirt and Yvonne was strict on how you presented yourself wearing it.
It had 3 buttons on it and my preference was just leave them all undone but Yvonne would always do up at least 2 of them for you if she seen you had them undone and wouldn't let you have them undone as she said it looked "too untidy and unpresentable".
She was very authoritative and the monotone voice could make her sound distant at times.
She cared a lot for the kids but just wasn't great at expressing that to them.

She took to me straight away for whatever reason (I have a theory to why that was but I'll leave that to when it comes up) however it took me quite a months to warm to her.
The main reason being she constantly used physical contact, and, as kid, I hated people touching me.
Even when I'd tell her that I didn't like people touching me she'd say something like "you have to get used to physical contact with people" and that was generally her attitude towards most things. Caitriona had build up trust first to being able to touch me without me getting annoyed, and if I did she always accepted how I felt when I told her I didn't like it. So they were very different from each other.

Anyway after few years into the new regime we're out doing a standard patrol which was usually just us walking about the town. On this day we land back at "the den" very early.
Usually these patrols would take up most of the day as it meant we had nothing else to do but walk around the place.
When we did get back, we saw that a big blue tub had been laid out with plastic coverings surrounding the floor next to it.
We knew exactly what this meant. It meant people were gonna get gunged and that there'd be lots of gunge as the tub only came out when things were gonna get super messy.

Now if you read part one you may recall when I spoke about the time when an English girl started with us and said she'd love to get gunged and one of the scout leaders said "we can gunge you if you really want to do it" and got a massive donation sorted.
Well that scout was Yvonne and before that she wasn't really someone who set up messy events.
And I probably should say that there was probably about 20 scout leaders in our group and only about 3 of them ever made messy forfeits/fundraisers/events in general.
I feel like I'm giving this misconception that they all did this (and on very rare occasions the one's that didn't would hand one out although it was still insanely rare) so usually when a messy event occurred in our group it was usually because of 1 of 3 girls and Yvonne was one of them.
She did them the least though and unlike the other two she never actually nominated anyone or gunged them herself. She'd always get someone to pour the gunge and have them find a volunteer to get messy, if they couldn't find one then that person dishing out the gunge would have to pick someone and that person who got picked would have to do it weather they wanted to get messy or not. Yvonne just organised and ran the event.

At this event however Yvonne was going to be the one dishing out the gunge which was a first.
I remember being intrigued by who she'd pick as the victim as she did always feel quite distant from the kids.
I also knew she'd have to pick someone if this event was to go ahead as you could tell the mood was flat and nobody was interested in volunteering themselves.
We'd just been walking around town aimlessly for a half an hour and people were just tired I guess.
And so when Yvonne starts shouting out looking for volunteers to step up and get messy, nobody puts themselves forward.
Usually one of the girls would eventually volunteer but this day it just felt like nobody was up for up for it.
After going around the room and asking everyone individually if they'd step up and getting no response she says to us "if nobody volunteers soon then I'm just going to pick someone"
In the old regime they'd simply accept nobody's interested and just do something else but this was one of the main differences between the two regimes which I was not a fan of. The fact they'd continue doing stuff even clearly nobody wants to do it.
I knew in this situation I would be fine. As I said before Yvonne had a clear preference to me over the others.
During this year, and all the following years after, she was in charge of overseeing my personal development, at her request no less (I wanted Caitriona again but Yvonne already requested to be in charge of me so it was unfortunately denied, it ended up being the case for the following years too) and like the previous two girls who were in charge of overseeing me I told her mess was not a thing I liked.
So I was very confident nothing was gonna come of this for me.

Around 5 minutes after Yvonne had made the announcement of she's "just gonna pick someone" I feel two hands land on each of my shoulders from behind.
I turn around and it's Yvonne.
She tells me "go take your shoes off"
I am genuinely confused at this point and ask her "why?"
Then she drops the bomb
"Because you're getting gunged and I don't want to ruin your shoes"

I thought she was joking until I remembered just how serious a person she is.
I tell her "I am not"
And without missing a beat she says "yes you are and I'm not arguing with you on it. We're gonna start in 10 minutes"
That bounced right off me and I immediately started thinking of ways of getting out of it.

At this point I'd been gunged once but I was able to almost pretend it didn't happen since it was with a different group that I saw maybe 3 times a year. This was different, these were people I interacted with multiple times a week and they've known me for years.
Something about getting gunged in front of them felt much more humiliating.

I ask her "why me?"
And her answer was something like "nobody was volunteering, I had to pick someone and unfortunately for you, the person I've picked is you"
I then tell her to pick someone else and she tells me "we have to do this event. I gave plenty of opportunity for someone to volunteer. Whoever I picked was gonna be unfortunate for them. It's just gunge, you'll be fine"
At this point the other scout leaders start joining in and backing Yvonne so I started to retreat for now.

I knew there was no arguing with Yvonne. I've seen loads of people try over the years and she always got what she wanted.
After a few minutes Caitriona walks through the door from the patrol we'd been on and I start to think she could talk to her and get me out of this, after all she hadn't failed me yet.
And I've had these exact situations happen before, one of the girls were gonna gunge me because they had to pick someone and wouldn't let me out of it, I'd tell Caitriona then she would go over and talk to them and after their chat I no longer have to get gunged.
So I go over to her and say "Caitriona they're trying to gunge me but I don't want to get messy but they won't listen to me. Will you talk to them?"
She says "Of course. Who is it?"
I then point over to Yvonne and instantly Caitriona looks defeated which isn't a good start.
She turns to me and goes "oooh... I'll see what I can do but I can't promise you anything"
Which she's never said to me before. I guess she just knew who she was dealing with.

She heads over to Yvonne and they start talking for about 2 minutes.
I can see them talking but can't hear what they're saying so I have no idea how discussions are going.
Caitriona finally comes back over to me with the same defeated look and says "I'm sorry I tried but I think you're just gonna have to get gunged"
This was complete new territory so I really had no idea what to say to her.
I then said something like "you've always got me out of this before"
She then explained to me that it because beforehand she was charge of personal development for me which basically meant she had more authority over me in particular than anyone else. So when she told the girls beforehand not to gunge me, they had to listen to her cos they had no authority to overrule her.
In this occasion though Yvonne was in charge of me so Caitriona no longer has that authority, Yvonne does, so all Caitriona could do was talk to her and ask her not to do it. Which Yvonne declined.

At this point Caitriona shifted tactics and tried to hype up getting gunged.
That I was actually extremely lucky cos I got to get all messy and nobody else did and that was going to be so much fun.
It really wasn't working on me unfortunately for her.
I told her that it wasn't gonna be fun and then told her something I never told anyone before and had no intention on telling anyone.
I told her I'd gotten gunged as a a forfeit by a different group and that I didn't find it fun at all (even though I actually kinda did, I just didn't properly understand it)
She then had a concerned look on her face trying to work out how to comfort me but also to get me ready and willing to be gunged.
She then started talking about the concept of perception, that because I went into the situation telling myself it was going to be bad then it really was going to be a bad experience but if I change my perception to that it's actually going to be fun, and tell myself "I'm going to enjoy this" then I will actually enjoy it and it will be a fun and positive experience.
Which was a concept completely lost on me and honestly sounded dumb to me at the time (although I whole heartily agree with it now)
I ask her if she's ever had something like this done to her, which I knew she hadn't.
I'd asked her had she ever gotten wet or messy before (strange thing to ask someone I know but an early fetish sign that I missed, I used to ask many people this) so I knew her answer was no.
I then say "so you don't actually know that for sure. It's super humiliating"

She then starts looking at me and I can tell she feels bad for me and after about a 5 second pause she says "wait here"
I then see her walk up to Yvonne again and I start thinking she has an idea to get me out of it.
After about a 20 second chat I see Yvonne nodding her head in agreement and I'm stood there thinking "she's done it!"
Caitriona then walks back towards me and says "ok so..." and I basically interrupt and shout at her "I don't have to do it?"
To which she awkwardly pauses then says "no you're still getting gunged unfortunately. Like I said I can't overrule her decision....... But I'm going to get gunged with you! So we'll have loads of fun the two of us getting all messy"

Now to this day I feel like a total ass for how selfishly I reacted to that.
I gave her no appreciation for the really sweet gesture she'd made as it's definitely not something I'd have done for anyone.
I was just thinking about myself and that I was gonna get gunged in front of everyone, and heavily at that and how humiliating that was going to be.

After that Yvonne came down to us to tell Caitriona that some of the girls had just gone out the back to make up more gunge and that they'd found someone to pour it over her (for some reason Yvonne wouldn't do both of us) so we'd be 5 minutes later than anticipated.
I tried one more time tell Yvonne I really don't want to do this but she tells me again "you have to"
She tried to make a slight deal with me that they'd heat the gunge up for me so it won't be freezing like the usual experience was, but needless to say that didn't make me feel any better better.
More of the scout leaders come into the conversation and start backing Yvonne up, telling me that I have to do it because Yvonne said so.
They sounded very fed up with me complaining at this point.
Caitriona then grabs hold of me and tries to comfort me and starts to tell me that it's not going to be like the first time since I'll be getting gunged with someone which will make it so much fun, that it might look scary and humiliating but it is just gunge and we can simply wash it off afterwards.
She then says "let's take small steps for now, let's just go out of the room and take our shoes off"
At this point I could see Caitriona was out of ideas to help me and I was also out of ideas to get out of it.
I didn't wanna risk annoying Caitriona like I'd annoyed the rest of the scout leaders so I finally just accept my fate as Caitriona pushes me towards the door and we take our shoes off.

For event itself, the initial basic idea was there was initially supposed to be a game.
And it was just as simple as one of the scout leaders would ask the rest of the group a question. If they got it right then weyhey nothing bad happens to me but if they get it wrong then I'd get gunged. Not the most creative game but that was it.
After Caitriona joined in though they decided they could juggle it about and make it a bit more interesting.
They'd split up the team to a boys team and a girls team.
The scout leader would ask one of the teams a question.
There was no penalty for getting it wrong this time, however, if the girls team got a question right then Yvonne would gunge me and if the boys got one right then whoever was in charge of gunging Caitriona would gunge her.
There were only 3 boys left in our group at this point (and that's including me) so anytime we did this "boys vs girls" some of the girls had to temporarily become boys to even the teams out.
Me and Caitriona had 4 buckets of gunge each (blue and red gunge for me, green and yellow gunge for Catriona) however, we weren't gonna have the whole bucket poured over us if someone got an answer right.
Instead they had little 2 or 3 litre sandcastle type buckets that they'd fill up and that was the amount poured on you for a correct answer. So that was another difference to my first gunging and immediately meant this was gonna be a longer gunging.

For outfits well it's much the same as the first gunging. I was in my uniform again.
I was mostly always gunged in my uniform although there were a few exceptions.
For those who don't know the unform it was black sweat pants and a short sleeve navy polo shirt.
Caitriona was in her school uniform (she was around 21/22 at this point but had recently returned to school to finish her exams) so she was wearing black trousers and a blue long sleeve buttoned shirt.

The two of us walk back into the room, get into the blue tub (which just about fit both of us) and kneel down.
Caitriona gives me this nervous excited look and I remember thinking "at least I'm not tied up this time" as that led to a lot of discomfort during the first gunging.

The first question gets asked and straight away the girls get it right which means I'm getting gunged.
This is where I really start to hope "maybe it's all a wind up and this where they reveal it was just a prank all along and I'd be let go"
But no. Yvonne did indeed gunge me, and much like the Australian girl, she poured it slowly and distributed it equally so I got messy very quickly.
After the first bucket went over me I remember looking up and seeing Caitriona smiling/laughing and clapping in acknowledgement for me actually going through with it which was really nice but I can't deny it still felt pretty humiliating to be gunged in front of her.
What was worse is after about 10 minutes I'd about 7 small buckets poured over me, I was probably about a third way through the 2nd big bucket and Caitriona had yet to be gunged.
At this point I started to think they'd tricked me into by pretending Caitriona was gonna also be gunged but then never actually do anything to her.
Although since we were the same tub some of the gunge had made it's way over to her side so she was now actually kneeling in gunge but she'd yet to have a bucket poured over her.
I could tell she was starting to feel a little awkward and uncomfortable too.
She'd been going on how much fun it was for the two of us to get messy but here we were and she, minus the little bit of gunge underneath her knees, was totally clean. Whereas I was completely covered head to toe and was not having the fun she envisioned.

It was probably down to the quiz category.
I can't remember what the category was but one of the girls in the girls team knew every answer it seemed.
The category did change eventually and it was something like cartoons or something to that effect and the boys team get one right so finally after about 10 minutes of Yvonne pouring buckets of gunge over me, it's finally Caitriona's turn to get gunged.
She takes it with the same enthusiasm she went into it with, just a bit of fun.
The boys really did pull it back too and overall it's hard to tell who won as Caitriona ended up just as messy as me.
At the end of it both Caitriona and Yvonne tell me they're both really proud of me for doing it, which seemed to be a staple after getting messy that someone would say that to you.

We got out of the tub which was a huge struggle as we kept slipping and sliding everywhere.
I wasn't actually prepared for that as the first time I got gunged it was on grass and I didn't really have to stand in it afterwards.
As we went out towards the door, one of the scouts told us to stop and turn around.
She'd been taking photos throughout and wanted a picture of the two of us together standing up after the whole event.
She then took a picture of me and Yvonne together too as she was the one who gunged me.
This was something they did for pretty much every messy event.
Few pictures of you pre mess, few of you recieving the mess and then at the end a picture of you standing beside the person who messed you up at the end and sometimes one of the cleanup.
This seemed to be the case for all groups that I could tell. At least all the ones that gunged me anyway.

On our way out we stopped at the mirror and had a look at the damage done to us. It was basically the same result as my first gunging tbh.
You can only get so messy before it just starts coming off you again and that's what this was.
We looked like we'd both just taken the gunge dunk on a certain show.

We stand outside because we'd already gotten quite a bit of gunge all over the floor by walking around.
As we're standing outside I start to space out in my own world when suddenly I get sprayed with a huge stream of water.
I turn around and Caitriona is standing there laughing with a hose in her hand telling me to stand still cos she needs to wash the gunge off.
I didn't put a fight this time and just let her do her thing.
I knew I'd be able to take the wet clothes off pretty much immediately anyway as I had a change of clothes inside.
So Caitriona hoses me down.
I do have to stay in the wet clothes for a little longer than I'd hoped as I had to wait for Caitriona to get hosed down too so they could take one final photo of the two of us with the gunge cleaned off and the two of us soaking wet.
I finally get inside and get a change of dry clothes.
Caitriona on the other hand did not have a change of clothes which makes what she did for even more sweeter.
I did help her cover her driver seat with a plastic covering so her car seat wouldn't get soaked which was the least I could do.

This experience was a weird one to be honest.
My first gunging the arousal all came from me getting gunged by such a beautiful woman.
Yvonne is beautiful herself tbf but something hit different.
I think it was probably the interaction I had with the Australian girl, she seemed to really enjoy gunging me and winding me up in the process.
Yvonne didn't really do that. She enjoyed gunging me for and had a smile on her face as she did it but she wasn't one for winding people up.
Also, whilst this wouldn't be known to me then, nobody on this planet has gunged me more than Yvonne has and it's not even close.
For context one of my ex girlfriends gunged me 4 times and that's knowing I have a wam fetish.
Yvonne is easily over 10 times and that's just for gunge.
There's also the aspect for the first gunging is that I was tied up and amongst people I didn't see too often which probably made it easier to digest in some strange way.
And the main factor too, at least to me, is that it was THE first wam experience I had that made it arousing, I didn't know what to expect the first time so the anticipation of getting gunged probably just turned into arousal, this time I knew what was coming so the impact probably wasn't as strong and
so when I look back on this event the thing that I actually found most exhilarating was Caitriona getting gunged.
At the time not so much cos I remember feeling bad for her cos I knew she was only in that situation cos of me.
She did seem to have a blast doing it though and she ended up getting gunged on quite a few occasions after this so maybe there's no need to feel so bad about it as she must've actually enjoyed enough to volunteer herself on a few occasions after this.

Also whilst I didn't notice it then, Caitriona was definitely right about it being more fun with someone else although I would caveat that with the fact that other person was Caitriona and her positive attitude towards it.
She actually did manage to help me forget that it was a "humiliating experience" by constantly trying to have fun with me.
If the other person had the same attitude as I did going in then it probably would've made the experience even worse.

Really not sure how long to make these blogs.
I always plan to tell more than I do but then I get caught up over explaining things and they end up really long.
I'll probably not go into so much detail going forward about how resistant I tend to get at these events but for this one it was really just to highlight what Yvonne was like as a scout leader.
I'm also not sure if people would rather I made these super long and threw in a few experiences or keep them somewhat shorter and tell one experience each time.
I think these early parts are also to showcase what type of person I was and the kind of people at these events so if it's another experience I had where I got gunged by Yvonne then I shouldn't have to go into such detail about us as people but if it's someone I haven't spoke about yet then it may take longer.
If you have any feelings on that then feel free to let me know.
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