Recently I have been introduced to chastity and I am gradually getting more used to it (ensuring the cage is a good fit, getting more comfortable wearing a cage and wearing it for longer periods of time). I was curious if anyone in chastity or as a keyholder has any experience with sploshing and chastity? Whether they only get messy without the cage on; whether they get messy but avoid any mess around their cage/crotch or any other personal experiences of sploshing and chastity.
I don't have any advice to offer, but you might want to edit the title - I assume you're talking about a chastity belt, rather than the general concept of chastity/celibacy. (Not a criticism, just a suggestion to help you attract eyeballs from people with relevant experience.)
While I have my own cage, it doesn't fit well enough to wear long term. I have several BDSM-minded friends who have worn cages for several weeks at a time. My personal best is 18 days. Alas, none of those friends are into getting messy.
It sounds like you're doing this already, so for the sake of any other readers, it is important to gradually increase the duration of wear. Some beginners underestimate the physical and psychological stress of long-term chastity, especially if the wearer would otherwise masturbate daily.
Sploshing and chastity would be an interesting combination. It might make for an exciting ceremony to endure a massive gunging to receive your freedom. If you're getting messy with clothes on, you might not need to make any adaptations. Depending on the material of the cage, the only complications I can foresee would be rust or staining [if it's plastic].
All cages -- even those that can be worn in the shower -- should be taken off to be scrubbed (and dried!) periodically... every 2-3 days or so depending on its design. The groin is a bad place for a skin infection, and you should definitely remove the cage if there is any sign of irritation. If you're lucky enough to have/be a keyholder, make sure to negotiate acceptable cleaning habits.
If your cage has a lock, switch it out with a zip-tie style (that can be cut off with scissors) rather than using a pad or key lock which may not survive the mess. It would make for a humiliating experience if you're stuck with a sloppy cage in your pants during a trip to the hardware store to borrow a bolt cutter... actually, that kind of humiliation would be a turn-on for a lot of guys.
Cheers messMan; The cage I prefer to wear is not compatible with a padlock let alone a zip tie (unless i really want to MacGyver it; it has a different type of lock). So it's a good idea to know that I should probably swap it out for one that is compatible if I do get messy.
I have tried the cage a few times at a particular lady's request, although it's not my thing and it gets her off tremendously i bear with it. I've typically done the cage, and on 2 occasions I've engaged in messy play with it. However, during those sessions I've been freed or let loose so to speak and given a number of very pleasant releases. We found it safer as it needed a good cleaning with after the session anyway. Fortunately and unfortunately, i have not been kept past a messy session.
As long as you clean well enough after, and make sure you dry it again, it's fine. If I've worn mine during a session, i've always taken it off after to wash properly and also dry everything first before putting it back on.
The really cheap locks can rust if left wet for a time, and some of the better ones can be a fair bit harder to open when filled with mess
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