Hey all,

So I'm in the fortunate position where my partner is willing to get messy with me (before you ask, no, you will never see the results). Good times have been had, but they're not the biggest fan of getting their face messy, although they will do this from time to time.

I'm totally accepting of this, but naturallly it kinda limits the things you can do. So thought I'd turn to you all for ideas on keeping things interesting? There's a few obvious things, like clothes filling etc, but wondering how varied and unique it can get?

There's cake sitting, spanking with pies, body painting (you can use different colored cake frosting, or specifically body paints) and you can turn them into a work of art. There's also water guns and water balloons if they don't mind getting wet. Wearing white clothes and getting them stained with many colors. Massage oils and lotions, giving each other massages in the oils, or giving a messy massage with cool whip or cake frosting. Those are all I can think of so far

You could make it a trivia game, ask each other questions. If the person answering the question gets the answer wrong they get messy, but if they get the answer correct then the person who is asking the question gets messy. This is my personal wam fantasy, I just need to find a woman who wants to play.

Using different colors with frosting or even soap paint you can wash it off but really have with it in the moment

I actually LIKE WAM without face coverage at times. There's something every erotic about seeing your partner's perfect, clean face as you're messing up the rest of them and they you.

Think of like a mud bath, where you typically see people immersed up to their neck. There's a lot you can do without specifically getting each others' faces messy!

My wife didn't like getting her face messy either. I think the community here convinced her otherwise and over time she grew to love getting messy on her face. It just takes time. Don't push it. I also like a certain aspect of seeing a clean face but everything else is ruined. It all depends. But do what is comfortable for both of you and know your limits. Communication is key.

Thanks for all the suggestions - will definitely take note going forward!


Interesting comment - definitely not one I would have expected considering your output! Definitely will heed your advice about time and communication; one can hope we get there one day!


It's on our ideas list, but I sense I would just be accused of rigging the game in my favor.

Which, you know, may or may not be true...

Clean faced Kate while her panties are being filled with goo is one of my favorite things honestly.

Is face-wam something that's important to you, or not? I know a lot of people like it, TBH I'm far more about the clothes and body getting messy, and if the face is to be done, save it till the end, so all the reactions to the messy sensations elsewhere can be seen as stuff is applied.

Non-face WAM things to do:

Sit on one or more cakes, ideally defrosted gateaux liberally laced with syrup and/or custard. Wonderful way to start to mess up a really smart outfit, if she's wearing a long flowing dress then at first nothing will even show at the front - in trousers you'll see a little goo welling up between her legs, but the seat of her outfit will be a spectacular mess and she can stand and re-sit in it several times to really sequelch it in to her clothes.

Depening on your clothes preferences, have her wear a swimsuit under a trouser outfit, and then fill the swimsuit gradually with more and more mess, have her pull the waistband of the trousers forward so the mess can slip down inside the swimsuit. Keep going until the leaking goo from the crotch of the swimsuit out of view actually starts to seep and show throigh the trouser legs. Having her stand up and sit down may encourage this process.

Have her dress in a beautiful gown - charity shops are good for prom dresses - and just gradually destroy it with mess, start with some poured in the neckline while she's sitting down, once a fair bit has gone in, have her stand up and turn round to reveal it's started to wet through the seat of the dress from inside.

Boots filling. Pour mess into some boots, she puts them on and then walks around for a while like that, you'll know she's messy, but nothing (at first) will show. Be careful with this one though, and possibly stick to flat boots, as it's very easy to fall off high heeled boots when they're full of slippery goo, and twist or even break an ankle.

Hope these are of some inspiration. Good luck!