Optimistically posting this just on the off-chance someone passes through who might be interested:

38M. Straight.
Switchy (though with an individual partner I can be purely dom or sub if that's the dynamic). I always used to see WAM as my main kink in the past but I've increasingly been interested in various aspects of BDSM, and enjoy mixing the two.
Generally enjoy quite playful dynamics.
In terms of sploshing, sweet food or gunge only, nothing savoury or gross.

Poly, with a nesting partner and another partner some distance away. We date separately. Interested in a variety of relationships, from a one-off encounter to something more regular or serious.

Will of course send face pics if you might be interested.

I'm also on FL https://fetlife.com/users/2639536

Bumping this just in case. I think enough time has passed for it to be OK to do so!