Hello folks, since 2007 Im watching wam-stuff on the UMD. Regular; almost every day. In 2014 I noticed that I got more demanding. Whipped cream doesnt do its job anymore, no more than mud and most types of pies.
In 2008 at least 50% of daily-new-umd-stuff aroused me but today I have to wait up to 4 days for a fill-in. I got very fastidious. It isnt a decision Ive made like "what will I wear today?" but it is an emotional thing.
The question is: Can a festish be "over-satisfied and disappear"? I must laugh while reading is. But I cant deny that my festish got weaker distinctly.
Like anything else in life - people's interest in fetish/sex/hobbies/television/films/etc/etc/etc change over time - sometimes it's a "Ohhh yes, that is good"/"I want to spend all my spare time on doing knitting" to "I can't be bothered tonight"/"oh, that looks ok, but doesn't float my boat today".
Why? All sorts of reasons - life in general, getting older, stresses/strains in life, illness, variations in libidio, etc. etc. etc.
So to sum it up - sometimes finding you have "lost interest" in something is perfectly natural part of life. It may pick up again later, or it may not - only time will tell on that one I'm afraid.
I can't see "growing out of it," it's hard-wired into me. But sometimes, it doesn't appeal. at those times, just about nothing appeals to me; it usually means I am depressed or overly tired.
Myds said: I can't see "growing out of it," it's hard-wired into me. But sometimes, it doesn't appeal. at those times, just about nothing appeals to me; it usually means I am depressed or overly tired.
Totally echo this. I've been into getting messy since I was tiny and I don't expect the fascination or sexual excitement will ever truly disappear, but like the tide my urges and interests rise and wain. Sometimes I am just not that bothered. At other times I'm hardly able to contain myself.
Here's my experience: I get busy or have house guests and don't think about WAM for a few days. Then it comes roaring back to life with a vengeance. I get the most excited after a period away.
Like everything in life my focus on wam dips and lifts following the rise and fall of my energy levels. If I'm really down that focus will turn to guinness and buttered muffins. There have also been occasions when wam stuff I watch seems to all look the same. (I often wish I had the facilites, means and admirable qualities it must take to be a producer myself. I'm turned on by more surreal stuff so maybe I could offer a differant flavour. ??) Fortunately, I've got a vivid imagination so if say a video isn't quite to my liking I can kind of "fix it" into something else, if that makes sense.
anything's possible. and i don't mean that to be flip, really...
for me, waxes and wanes. the sameness off things can be a "turnoff" - meaning both that "regular sex" is boring, wam is more adventurous, kinky, perverted, unusual, as well as i get bored with wam if we keep seeing the same models, same set-ups, same flare-ups/arguments on this board, same basic content repeatedly. i will then come and go, literally and figuratively.
i really depend on this site for so much of what i get out of WAM/why i think to a large degree i even have a continued interest in wam -- certainly an outlet for it. i'd be clinging to a few old printed out dudemon and Rob Blaine photos/catalogs, Hurley tapes, and a couple splash magazines.
i know may often say don't dwell/overanalyze WAM, just accept the fetish and that i have a strong interest in it, but i can't sometimes think of how juvenile it is, how linked to adolescence it is -- freedom, too, to be messy, silly. but it's a fetish that certainly for me was born out of instincts and urges and images from my childhood. and that is occasionally bothersome, and then other times just is merely worth noting. i think there's a certain amount of shame i still associate with WAM and therein lies an instinct to push away from it, leave the table as it were for a while...
Thanks for the answers. Sure the effect of habit plays a role, too. But it works temporarily. In my case it is permanent. Back in 2007 I was crazy with the type of pie in the piefightgirls-videos. When I watch the use of them today, there is no feeling. Not only today but the day before and the day before yesterday and the day before of the day before yesterday...till 2014 maybe.
And this concerns some other messy stuff, too. I dont know if a fetish can disappear but it can shrink distinctly.
I think with the wide availability of WAM on the Internet nowadays I need more extreme WAM to be satisfied. 20 years ago a simple pie in a lady's face would have done it for me. Now when I splosh the wife it's no longer just a pie in the face it has to be total destruction mwhahaha
jrocker: Yes I think I will try what youve said. But it also leads to the interesting question if this works for "reality wam", too. I have never practised it with a partner so I cant judge.
Freddyblatt has already suggested it: His reality wam must be extremer today. I don´t know if it can be generalized. But if it can, most people will either need wam-breaks or they will end up building the SplattGun from wetandmessy.com
Love you, too
