piecub said: "You're here on this site, as we all are, because WAM is sexual for you. But is it emotional for you?"
I'm drawn to the kink (or the experience) of engaging in gunge / WAM kink (or play) with another like-minded guy. I would, more than likely, have an erection before, during, and/or after engaging in that kind of kink (or play). I would, more than likely, masturbate at some point after that play.
BUT...
I have basically zero interest in oral (give or take), and literally zero interest in anal (give or take), which is actually a hard limit for me; I am, however, open to masturbation if the connection / energy is right. (And I could say all of these same things about my other kink, which is male/male spanking/paddling.)
In other words, I see WAM (and spanking) as acts in and of themselves - not preludes to something more overtly sexual. I want to experience the connection, the energy, the intimacy, and the trust that comes from engaging in kink with another guy.
I've tried self-sessions in the past, and even the times I've jacked off during or after those sessions, it's always felt empty somehow. (I've had the same type of experience engaging in self-spanking, as well.) Engaging in solitary play just isn't fulfilling or meaningful to me. I need that connection and that shared experience with another person.
I need a spanking...
3/2/23, 11:05am: Poster confirmed that they are not posting an ad or request for paid personal sessions