WAM is a large part of my bisexual awakening. Hanging out at fountains, jumping in clothed, watching others do the same and realizing the stirrings for the wet guys weren't just thinking about their wet clothes, but were the same stirrings I felt for the wet women. And in here, going from not avoiding pictures and videos that avoided guys to fully enjoying them. And nonbinary of all sorts as well.
I'm a trans woman (I identify my gender as a woman and present 100% of the time, which differentiates me from someone who cross-dresses) and feel that my sexuality can be best described as "queer".
I like the idea of having kinky sex, I enjoy the fetish etc. but when it comes to actual sex, I'm more aligned with being somewhere on the asexual spectrum (sex is weird...).
I like all genders, which at times can fluctuate more towards one over others, but overall I'm open to pretty much anything and anyone.
If I then wanted to additionally label my romantic attraction, I would also argue this is somewhere in the aromatic spectrum.