Not something I've tried before, but it's a fantasy of mine and you've got to try everything at least once, right?
A woman spends most of her time dressed up, smelling of sweet perfume, make up and hair, just right. I like the idea of my face being plastered with flour paste (cake batter) filled pies and gunged with ketchup, brown sauce and salad cream
No, you're not alone in that! I think humiliation plays a large part for some people but others struggle with it A LOT! I often cross it with other fets, but I don't think you can mention or show on here but I bet you can guess...
Yes, I like the humiliation part of wam. I want to be tied to a chair and pelted by cream pies to my face and body for punishment when I get out of line. I also want to tie her up and give it to her as well. Pies to the face and body for misdeeds.
I, almost always, defer to the subjects preferences. While I personally like to see a woman get messy, I'm mostly open to how it happens. So I just want someone to cum to whatever the act is, Whatever it doing on they should be able to climax to it. That's my line
I LOVE humiliation in WAM. I'd LOVE to be grabbed at random, when I'm least expecting it, and he tied up and hammered with all kinds of smelly, sloppy, stinky stuff.
Humiliation is a big part of it for me. When trying to describe the kink to other people, I often say the appeal for me is a mix of sensation play (I love feeling different sensations / things against my skin) and humiliation play.
yeah, so there are tons of us that are into the humilation side of this. It's why my store exists.
I would go as far as to say there are a lot of us that "only" care about humiliation wam. I'm specifically referring to a deserving target. A villainess getting her just deserts. A rude snob getting a humble pie. That sort of thing is relatively rare to find, despite it kind of seeming like it goes hand in hand with wam in general.
However here, in our community , "humiliation" has a wide swath of meanings it seems like. There are tons of videos out there described as "humilation" that have a woman laughing all the way through, or Some where she really doesn't seem that bothered, or where the victim shows no emotion at all. Other Humiliation videos are overly cruel and seem like bullying. So I guess it really depends on what you even mean by humilation. Lots of niches out there.
If you are thinking about doing something like the classic "stuck up woman gets what's coming to her" sort of thing, check out the faceplant forum for some inspiration.
It is basically essential to me enjoying a wam video, although I'd prefer to feel like a model is doing a good job of acting humiliated rather than a confident assertion that somebody was for-real having a bad time.
Fjhoul said: It is basically essential to me enjoying a wam video, although I'd prefer to feel like a model is doing a good job of acting humiliated rather than a confident assertion that somebody was for-real having a bad time.
For me, humiliation is everything. For example, a girl getting slimed by surprised and then whining about her hair or makeup or whatever is a turn on while the SAME girl smiling and dumping a bucket of slime on herself does absolutely nothing for me.
Words like "punishment", "forfeit" and I guess "humiliation" are buzzwords for me, but it has to be playful and fun. If the model is obviously not liking it that's a killer. I also don't like the idea of covering myself or anyone else in anything unpleasant. Getting covered in ketchup, let alone something like dog food or fish guts, sounds horrible to me, whereas taking a pie in the face is actually a fun and indulgent experience, provided the setting is right.
I am definitely into the idea of domination and submission, and I think this is what my WAM fetish is all about rather than anything sensory. Playfully taunting and laughing at the person on the receiving end gets me going, but only if they're going along with it too. I also like the idea that you can be turned on by the thought that you're turning someone else on, so if you're getting messed up and the clean person is getting aroused by it, you might be aroused by that yourself and want to put on a bit of a show for them.
I like when the models are "acting" humiliation: {"Well, I never!" on the first pie to the face) but don't want anyone to actually suffer. That's what "acting" is for. Anyone who can't separate an acted script from reality should have just as big a problem with adult models in "schoolgirl" uniforms.
I'll only comment regarding my pie fetish. I feel humiliation might be a bit too strong of a word, but if the women getting pied isn't embarrassed, it does nothing for me. The point of hitting someone with a pie in the face is to cause them embarrassment.
Myds said: I like when the models are "acting" humiliation: {"Well, I never!" on the first pie to the face) but don't want anyone to actually suffer. That's what "acting" is for. Anyone who can't separate an acted script from reality should have just as big a problem with adult models in "schoolgirl" uniforms.
Definitely. It a fantasy I want to explore in my next video. WAM for me has to be fun and wilful, or there is no point and I wouldn't do it
I love the humiliation part of WAM, and for me they are always related, been egged, pied or gunged completely perfect and wearing nice clothes by a prim girl who mocks and laughs at you, is a total turn on for me
Humiliation is my driver for WAM. I have zero interest in women getting messy for the sake of being messy, I need the context to actually make it interesting. So for me that is usually humiliation or a comeuppance style background.
I see it discussed often, but personally I have no draw towards the humiliation aspect. In fact, I don't really think that something you voluntarily participate in can be humiliating. But, I am currently talking to a girl who has an interest in sexual humiliation and getting pied in the face while handcuffed and face fucked appeals to her for that reason.
Definitely, domination/humiliation is probably what I'm actually into and WAM is the perfect tool. As such, it has to be forced upon the victim somewhat involuntarily (or acted in this way).
Wam to me used to be about the texture against my clothes/skin, but after losing a game and having to do a savoury bucket of various condiments and soups, something felt right about it. You're not alone in being curious about the degradation part of this community, it's worth it if you take the plunge!
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