I've done a few WAM things with friends through the years, and been chatting with a another friend of mine who's never done anything like that but was interested in trying. So, you know, we talk on and off about it for a few days, planning and such like, then this gem comes up in the conversation:

Me: Since you've been pretty fearless about the whole thing let me ask: how much mess is too much?

Her: Cover me head to toe, my dude.

I can't really explain it, but somehow that statement was really hot. Is that weird?

Well she told you what to do, so you better follow orders.

That's really cool. She obviously likes you and trusts you.

I'm glad you shared this. It goes to show that it's not impossible to get someone curious about taking part. Done in the right spirit it can be and feel like a very creative and even liberating experience for a woman. Well done. Play safe. Have fun!

Very much what Richard said.

I would just add it would be a shame to disappoint the lady by not meeting her request

This is where I point out that girls have fantasies too. And see it as potentially fun. You think only boys watched Double Dare and Wild and Crazy Kids and thought it looked like a blast? And all the girls went "ick!"

Thanks for the encouragement you guys! Touso: I mean we're friends so she likes me (probably not romantically?), but I was surprised with the "head to toe" part. That is a lot of trust to show!



I don't think it was quite an order or request as such. I actually prefer a low amount of mess myself my big thing is facial coverage! Probably will be a single real pie to start, a handful of shaving cream pies, and two small buckets of cake batter. Not quite "head to toe".
We are probably doing this at a park so there are practicality concerns. Budgeting for clean up with even moderate mess is hard!


Absolutely! It's just that in my (limited) experience, even girls who thought those shows were interesting generally curious only up to a very limited amount of mess (like a pie or two). And many more girls just go "nope, never," than guys do (although I realize there are lots of social reasons for that.)

Quite right too!