The 'sissy' should get it first, then turn the tables on the tough 'man' guy.... So they're both messed up and humiliated.... Hopefully out in public, so they get laughed at and embarrassed....., though they both loved what they just did....
So SISSY totally loses to MAN. And by far! It really is a man's world. With that in mind I've changed my profile pic to something more 'manly'. See pic below in case it's changed again by the time you read this.
(And don't worry, there's *something* pending that is VERY sissy)