So yet again ive had my timewasted by someone on here few weeks of chat and agreed meeting today, last contact was wednesday and today profile removed and wattsapp messages ignored starting to think im better of a watcher now

I have had that alot here, however most the time they are just talk and not actually meet ups that waste even more time. I just recently started a Twitter page and the amount of time wasters on there is insane! Don't get me wrong there are true genuine fans and people on there but yeah I feel your pain!

shame we cant block IP addresses as it turns out they are well known for it

It surprises me. This is a small kink and I have met very few women into it (a fair few that will have fun with it though), so it's amazing to me that if someone meets a woman into this kink, who is open to talking and potentially meeting up, they don't jump at the chance!

Maybe there is a worry they are being scammed, or they are in a relationship and back out, or just trolls?

Even I would go and I have next to no libido with a social anxiety about meeting and travelling!

Good luck though.

I'm not surprised.

Regards

Andy and the team.

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Messmaster

Well, it's a long swim, or I would happily meet you!

Has happened to me a few times.
I'm aware too that I have had to cancel sessions etc but I don't ever just disappear, and would always try to give a decent amount of notice. This kink can be time and money consuming to set up so a no show can be very frustrating.

Only got to ask, Beatrice. I won't waste your time believe me!

Yeah I've had the same a couple of times, very enthusiastic at first then gets harder and harder to contact nearer to the agreed date or stops replying to messages, or some feeble excuse. At least I've never paid for a ton of mess for nothing.