February is here and I'm feeling romantic I love seeing happy couples having fun and getting messy together. It's the ultimate high finding a partner who not only gets you, but is genuinely open to enjoying your kink with you. I'd love to hear how WAM has brought couples closer together! Tell me your first time wamming with your partner and your favorite WAM experience with your partner! I'm also curious, did your partner become a wammer after they tried it with you, and do they ask you for it now?

I've had several partners that have participated in WAM with me. Most have been on the giving end only. I don't push anyone to do anything that doesn't excite or intrigue them and I'm fine with that dynamic.

My current lover had previously incorporated sploshing into some of her burlesque acts and she was openly kinky so it wasn't a stretch.

For our first mutual WAM experience, I rented a hotel room and we each took a turn pieing each other in the face. It was fun, liberating, ridiculous, and sexy all at the same time.

On another occasion, she and I teamed up on a friend of ours who was into sploshing. That was my favorite experience as we took our combined top/dominant energy and delivered the sweet and creamy goods onto someone that was enjoying the humiliating experience of being covered in pie and cake. The buildup and anticipation to it by taunting and teasing them was just as hot.

So, I've actually introduced four past partners of mine into WAM. I don't believe any of them do it now unfortunately, but with me, their first times were pretty amazing to be honest. First one I did it with I used cool whip pies and chocolate syrup. Second one, we used full on shaving cream pies and covered each other from head to toe, full nude. Another time we did a spur of the moment pies in the face. The third partner, she took shaving cream pies to her face and beautiful tits. Same with the fourth partner. I actually plan on getting messy again with the third woman again so hopefully I can more pics with her.

I'm always excited any time a couple-ran account appears here.

This is surely the best of wam

I've been lucky that my last few partners obliged me by getting messy, but AimMe is on a whole new level. She's genuinely into it, especially the slime portion, and she helps me brainstorm ideas for content. We had our first session years ago in like 2011 but it was just kind of a one time thing and we just remained friends for years despite secretly, or not so secretly, being into each other the whole time and then reconnected recently. I can say that I'm incredibly happy with how things turned out and I feel really incredible that I get to do this with her. Anyway, I'm sure I made y'all barf with corniness so I'll end it now lol

I liked your musing and I (and we) agree with you. I just posted some older non-HD captures to show you the fun we had. The most fun we had? Let's just saw I think we raised Hershey's and Betty Crocker's stock about 3%. We made videos with friends, too. Everyone had a great time. We are retired from video now - just have private fun.

Genuinely happy for you, especially since we get to see the results of your reconnection!

I'm finding most of my favourite producers now are WAM couples who would be doing it anyway, and if the girl is cool enough with it to be filming and selling it, why not?

Explored WAM stuff in the first week of my relationship with my now wife. Been together over 14 years and married just over 2 years (we don't like to rush things).

First WAM experience involved her stood naked in the bath one side covered in strawberry desert sauce and one side covered in chocolate desert sauce. She ended up covering herself, because it was my first time getting someone else messy and I pretty much froze in the headlights - probably some kind of don't meet your heros moment going on my head, but we got over that hurdle and here we are now.

Probably managed a messy scene once every couple of months on average until last year when we threw caution to the wind and started doing all-sorts. Started swinging, entered into a number of polyamorous relationships, did a messy scene with another couple, put some of our messy scenes on film (initially for personal use only), got (back) on the kink scene, went to a splunch then started sharing what we got up to. Now we're managing over a scene a week on average and both loving it. Probably strengthened our relationship further than ever.

Favourite scene so far for me was probably new years this year. Other half looking stunning in a tiny latex dress and 6 inch stripper heels in the gunge tank getting completely covered in bright gunge with a massive smile on her face throughout after over 3 hours of getting ready.

My partner and I have done something of a kink trade. Conversations we've had make me think she is now a wammer. We have a break for two or three weeks, then she sees some pictures on here and shouts "I want that to be me", "can we do that". And other half of the trade, I've grown to be a top for her, as she loves bondage, impact play, praise to name a few. Some of that feeds into our WAM play, as there is certainly a WAM/bondage crossover area that works very nicely.

It's worth saying I do consider myself exceptionally lucky that I've found an adventurous partner for life so early on in my life.

Great thread, I love couples wam!

I'm very lucky that my lovely wife will happily indulge in getting messy on occasion. It took a good old while to pluck up the courage to mention it might be something I'd enjoy though she had an idea that I 'liked a bit of mess' as occasionally we'd play some kind of fun game finishing with her on the receiving end of a messy facial!

I'm lucky that she is open to ideas and eventually I showed her some pics/videos on here of both couples wam or topless gungings and we've since done a couple of sessions where she'll delightfully strip down to a thong and take the goo!

I'm sure we'll have more sessions going forward (including one soon hopefully) and maybe tick off some bucket list items, going in a gunge tank together, being sploshed by another couple and who knows what else.

This is a great thread and I'm happy to hear all the great success stories, here is mine. When I first started to date my wife we started slow with whipped cream in the "normal " places and she was standing in the bathroom and I must have had a look on my face because she asked me what is going on? I blurted out I want more hair face every thing messy! To my surprise she agreed. So we had a lot of fun that night, after that I confessed and showed her umd, and it's only grown from there. We've had a few one or two pie nights to full blown we are both unrecognizable by the end times. we've even dabbled in savory every so often. We have many outfits we choose for each other every thing from normal everyday to fetish gear. I don't know if I have a favorite time they've all been great and I'm so thankful I have a great love that excepts me and indulges me. But I will say I love that we came up with a tradition to pie each other at midnight on New Years Eve.

My first time is hilarious and sad. I did a custom with melted gummi bears and we decided to do a blowjob at the end.my guy was into the whole kink of my new found kink (this is like, the first year I started wamming) I did not know how to melt them. I did it on pots over the stove and added some other stuff to make it even more sticky.
So I put my feet in the pots and cover my legs and everything with this extremely sticky substance. It's all over this gigantic tarp. I then get out and it's all over me but my feet were still in the buckets bc I just wanted to get down and suck him off, right? Okay well he is not "sensitive" takes him a good 10-15 minutes to get offeven with my most deep throat acripn and hand job goodness. Well. When we were finished? My heeled feet were stuck in the buckets: my knees stuck to the tarp. Huge tarp. Like industrial room tarp (don't know why I got such a huge one) it's heavy and I literally can't move. The bathroom was about 40 feet away and I'm trying to get off this tarp and I can't! So? I'm trying to crawl to the bathroom with a heavy tarp, like 40 lbs of gummi bears and my feet stuck in these huge pots and my knees and legs stuck to the tarp: I was like a fucking inch worm hauling 70 pounds or so of tarp and stuff with me to get there. By the time I reached the bathroom I am sobbing.
I get there and then? We were trying to soak my legs and feet to get them out of the gummi mixture.
Just so I could get in the shower! It was hilarious! I learned after that? Wamming with gummi bears? Is only about "this long"
And don't stick your heeled feet in it and leave them there long either.
It was really hot though, before the end!!! Hahahahaha

Okay, I already adore you Jayce, but this just makes me absolutely love you more than ever I love how willing you are to do anything, but seriously, you are like, a freakin champion of mess! It really just makes me want to get messy with you SO badly! This made me laugh hysterically too, I feel like you could write a whole book about your experiences, I'd totally read that straight through

My first time sploshing my now wife was by our community's standards a bit tame! I'd plucked up the courage to tell her about having this fetish after many beers, she thought I was winding her up and didn't believe it was a 'thing'.
So I said "I'll prove it!" , we were drinking in the kitchen so I reached for a dozen eggs and laughing she said "go on then." So I did, 12 eggs smashed over her hair then 2 tins of tomato soup. She found it hilarious and saw the hard truth .
We had further messy times using different foods, my favourite was probably an unplanned night when we used whatever was in the house, tins of soup, baked beans, yogurt, salad cream, mayonnaise, marmalade, gateaux, gravy. We were one hell of a stinking mess, she got a bit grossed out by it and subsequently banned sploshing from then on. Oops!
Happily for me a few years later we were chatting about sploshing and she said it was the smells that majorly put her off, at this point I suggested real gunge/slime as I was aware this has little or no odour. We have been happily sploshing with MS gunge since, she enjoys it now and we usually have a messy night every 2 or 3 months.

this is why I am attempting to get this linkedin thing up and running and start this podcast so that I can interview YOU GUYS too and we can all talk about experiences, etc. and help eachother out with promos, ads, and help eachother out getting messy!
so maybe? that shit wont happen to anyone else! oh my god, it was fucking INSANE. just imagine one of those gigantic like 30 by 30 blue tarps? and my idiot ass with my heels stuck in pots (like cooking pots) of fucking gummi bears and my knees stuck to the tarp so badly? that i can barely scootch myself, the big giant tarp and the heavy mess and the heavy pots to the bathroom, to only get there and I cant fucking get off the damn tarp......so we are throwing scalding water on me to try to get offf.....when now? when i think about it? Why didnt we just cut that tarp so i didnt have to haul it all? why didnt I take my feet out of those pots? Why did I keep on getting face fucked while this insane amount of gummi bears was all underneath me? super thick all over me? why? lol!
that is the fun of wam, though. You do crazy shit and you learn! The stories I have just from the mud pits? are enough to write a novel. LIke the one I just wrote here....and someone to make it with paragraphs and proper punctuation. lol.

love you too, girl! your stuff is amazing! your set ups are awesome! (the tub ??? oh my god!) and i love your public stuff!!! you are mad!!! I love it!

i love that gunge! I feel like it is perfect for first time wammers/couples and hell, I love the stuff myself!
I love how versatile it is and easy to clean....easy to prep so you can play in it warm....
and you can add so much stuff to it, too! It is my go -to if someone wants to see me in "real gunge" and not my mystery substance or cake batter or fmallow slimes.
I love it!

Creamy and Jayce in Kentucky mud would be a dream come true.

My experience with my only partner hasn't been a very positive one and for reasons related to them, Valentines Day in particular is extremely painful. But I don't want to sour the joy and theme of the experience (can see most of it around the Messy Minds group if anyone is interested).

But yeah, my kink has definitely involved into one where I feel I need to share to enjoy it. While early on, the thrill of getting messy even by myself in the shower was amazing, it doesn't do anything for me anymore. So seeing couple videos, REAL couples in particular is my favorite thing.

I have had two experiences with people here, and they were some absolute highlights of my life!

I got muddy with my girlfriend once! We live in different countries so we don't see each other that often. But she knew about my kink, one time when I visited her we bought her wellies together and I gave her one of my raincoats. Sadly we didn't get to get muddy although we did take a shower in our rainwear which was fun.

When she came over to me next time she had also bought rainpants. She wore those, the raincoat I gave her and another one of mine that she borrowed just for that, and the wellies we bought. I wanted to show her the best mud so we ended up taking a four hour trip, which in hindsight was a bit excessive. The mud was mostly shallow but there was a deeper bit, however after she got stuck we decided to stay in the shallow mud. Her being stuck and me pulling her out had already gotten her pretty muddy, so we just had mud fights and rolled around and hugged and tried to cover each other as much as we could.

We couldn't clean up that much so on the way back we were still a bit muddy. It was kind of fun though to be still kind of muddy together.

She did enjoy it and wants to do it again, however she doesn't do it on her own, just with me. I've bought her a new kinda fancy rainsuit (farmerrain- my fellow rainwear fetishists will know it) so that definitely needs to get muddy next.

Edit: I wonder why the admins removed the muddy image of my gf? She's fully dressed in 2 layers of rainwear? And the thing she's holding is a tissue to wipe her hands.

I love this question!

Not a current partner, but once upon a time:

My gf at the time ("Gwench") and I made a bunch of large pies from cool whip and crusts, climbed into the large bathtub, and did some role-play and play-acting, and I pied her. Her first and immediate comment was "Oh! This feels good!!!", and that was it, she was hooked. I'm not sure if she stayed a wammer after our relationship ended (there was interest but iirc it faded with subsequent partners). That was our first wam together.

My favorite experience was buying several pies together from a pie-and-coffee shop on Ventura Blvd, from a very annoyed and irritated waiter. They were so skimpy with the whipped cream that we went and bought cool whip from the Ralph's down the street to top-up the banana cream pies. We headed to my apartment, waited forever for the stuff to thaw, and by the time we got to pie-play we were both so wired-up with anticipation that it was one of the most fun and erotic experiences either of us had ever had.

And she would recommend WAM play, and initiate. We were very much in sync.

Mr and Mrs have been together for 17 years and WAMing for about 7.

He introduced it to her and she was a bit hesitant at first. We started out with the "typical" chocolate sauce and aerosol whipped cream.

As we have explored our preferences, we have realized we both enjoy sweets over savory. But more is always better than less! I don't want a little dollop of canned whipped cream, I want a whole bowl of homemade whipped cream. we don't want just one pie, we want at least 15-20.

Mrs was concerned about penatration with all of the sugar so we bought MS gunge about 4/5years ago and it's definitely an amazing option when we REALLY want to have a good time

So glad there are other couples out there, like us! It's great to see others enjoying their spouse AND their kink so thoroughly......now, if we could only find some couples near us that wanted to get messy

We've been married for about 20 years and wamming for about the last fifteen.

In retrospect I struggle to understand why it took me so long to suggest it. I do remember an occasion early on in our relationship when we were on a beach walk together, nearly back home, and found we'd ended up on the other side of a small inlet. I remember suggesting we should just jump in in our clothes rather than walk around it, her agreeing, and the buzz of excitement that gave me. But I chickened out - it neither felt the right moment to suddenly blurt out that this was a sexual thing for me, nor did it feel right to watch her getting wet without her knowing what it was doing for me.

So I stayed "in the closet" for several years, and I can no longer remember exactly how it came up that this was a "thing" for me. But then I remember licking chocolate sauce off her fingers and her saying something like "Ooh, you do like it, don't you!" as she saw my reaction. And it grew, so to speak, from there. At the time we were in a small flat with small children, so opportunities were fairly limited, and didn't really go beyond what we could do in bed with a towel over the sheets. It wasn't until we moved to a house, and had occasional time together with the children at school, that wamming became bigger in both scale and frequency, and began to cover pretty much the full spectrum of things you can use to get messy.

For a long time my wife would say that she could see how much fun I found it, and so that made it fun for her, but that she wasn't at all turned on by the mess itself in the way I was. I think that might have changed a bit over the years - she's certainly become more enthusiastic about wamming over the years rather than less, and she'll sometimes comment on things that we might use, particularly in the dessert aisle of the supermarket. We've definitely both found we really like the feel of slippery WAM substances on us when we're having sex, and that in itself is a reason for both of us to seek it out more often.

I hope you can get things to line up to do this!! I think it would be awesome to hear! You don't need a big expensive set up or anything. There are so many things you could cover.