Just getting into the scene and exploring the options.
Not looking to fool around but I am keen on knowing more about the whole thing and learnig from those who already know. I would certainly like help on how one can get their partner, for me my girlfriend, into and enjoy what I find to be so very sexy.

Also looking for people in the states maybe to meet up with and chat about the scene.

I would also like to, someday, go to an a wam event if such a thing exists.