I'm sure some of you have noticed this by now, but in case you haven't, there is this YouTube user called "blah55219" who as of this post has three pie videos online. This is her most recent one:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QVCSqxA8I1w

She remains a mystery, as in each of her videos she refuses to show her face and only shows herself after hitting herself with a pie. One person claimed that she was a man in the YouTube comments, saying that the digit ratio of her fingers indicated that "she" was actually a "he", but if you look at this video I'm pretty sure that "she" has boobs or really big pecks, which wouldn't make sense given the size of those arms which would not be proportionate to pecks of that size. :?:

So assuming that this is a girl, my biggest question is: "Who IS this girl?"
One comment suggested it might me [Messy] Melania, who has been MIA for quite some time, but I doubt it since she would probably come out and show her face if she was back in the business. What do you guys think? And how do you think we can get her to either show her true identity or help her discover the UMD community?

We don't do either. :ahahah:

If she's not showing her face, then she doesn't want her identity known, for whatever reason. That's her prerogative. and if she doesn't want her identity known, I'm sure she has no interest in the UMD. There would be no quicker way to scare her off than to try to do either of the things you mention.

*PLEASE* don't try it!

As for your other questions, She looks like a woman to me. Those look like real breasts that, as you said, are too big to be pecs on a man with shoulders and arms that size. And her fingers look pretty feminine to me. That "digit ratio" stuff is something that someone came up with who believes that Michelle Obama is a man. There are just too many variables there, and not enough time to see clearly.

I'd just enjoy the clips; she looks lovely!

Thanks for posting the nice, messy vid!

Norman

** Btw, And Dx posted on the youtube vid: "why u have to hide her face, wtf, why damn" - And he doesn't think he's annoying to ladies, or intimidating to them?

Here's another of the vids from this person.

It's short, but messy!

We get a nice, long view of her neck, and I don't see an adam's apple. And again, when someone is moving their hands around and bending their fingers in different directions, you can't really tell the length of the fingers. If one can actually measure them that's different, but we can't do that here.

So enjoy the pretty lady getting pied!

Norman

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=ihTDbbyMxJc

This cannot be overstated - that fucking guy is a CREEP.

Who cares who they are?! Enjoy the video and move on! So many beautiful women have been scared off, both from UMD and elsewhere, due to obsessive guys who insist on knowing identities or otherwise creeping out the women.

Please don't ruin a good thing.:ahahah:

Well, I'm sorry if I came across as a creep or something. Some of those guys are too straight-forward and they could scare her off, but I guess it's he right to not show herself. I just think it's a shame that she feels that way.

Maybe if she knew (unless she does already know) that there was a community to support her she would be a little less secretive... IDK.

No. Here, let me rephrase that ...... NO........ I hope that I haven't been unclear.

We don't know the circumstances of how/why she was hitting herself with the pies. She may have been tricked into it. She may not know there's anything sexual about it to some people (us). She may not even know her vid is on the internet. We don't know.

If you want to scare her away in a NY minute, tell her to come here and have people drooling over her and making demands and lewd, creepy comments. AntDx has already left a comment over there. Let's invite her here, where he's a member (as well as some "others")!

If she's interested in a "support group", she'll look around the net and probably find us. But I seriously doubt it. If she was looking for a community to support her, and already knew about us, don't you think she'd be here? Please do not contact her. If you leave a comment on youtube, just say that you enjoyed her vid, that it was funny. DON'T tell her "how much" you enjoyed her vid. Besides, she'll probably never see the comments. The guy who posted it will.

Go play some Mario Bros. 64 until you cool down. But PLEASE do not try to contact her!

Norman

You're like a broken record. As long as you look at women as objests in your life you'll get nowhere. Read what people are writing whenever you post. Like Ive said it's now a rarity that something you post on doesn't get a negative response and inevitably deleted. A good post is once again being overlooked for the ant show.

It depends. If the woman is 32-bit & the wammer man is 64-bit,
you might be able to convert using an updated Windows 8.1
nonwam-to-wam converter box. But they don't sell these at Best Buy.
You'll have to look online.



P.S. Jesusfuckingchrist: I can't believe SNL hasn't created a character
based upon AntDX yet. Actually, now that I think of it, Will Forte created a few
some creepy pedophile-like characters.

Well, if you've paid attention to the bulk of SNL movies that have been made you will know that Lorne Michaels makes it a priority to strike while the iron is at least room temperature.

Also, AntDX

What people are trying to tell you is that you don't quite understand how other people work and how to properly and appropriately interact with them.

I get what you are asking, I think. Can you get someone else to enjoy your particular kink? The short answer is no. The longer answer is sorta, sometimes. I'll give you an example. I have a former roommate/longtime friend/ and former play partner. She really REALLY enjoys anal sex. I'm pretty much indifferent to it. I loved doing it with her, though, because of how much she enjoyed it and that was in large part because I care about her and love seeing her happy and enjoying herself. So, yes, you might at some point be lucky enough to be with someone who doesn't enjoy getting hit with pies but enjoys how much you enjoy hitting her with pies. Thats not the same as converting her to liking it, which is actually not possible.

In closing, I realize you likely have problems with being empathetic, but for your own benefit and to make your interactions with others more successful and mutually beneficial, please try to think more about how others will think and feel about the comments you make not based on what you want but on what they want. Please do look into ways to increase your empathy (meditation, for example), as it can only stand to benefit you in the long run.

OK OK for God sake I wasn't gonna try to contact her or anything or do anything to creep her out like some of these people are If she wants to be left alone I agree she should be left alone.

If I would have know how destructive this forum would turn into and how much controversy and slander would ensue I would have never posted this..

Should I just take this down?

Bottom line is that this girl, whoever she is, does not deserve to get any harassment from anyone on here, and I was never suggesting that from the beginning. Let her do her own thing and don't go asking for customs or trades or anything like that ok guys?

I don't think it matters mate i really don't. People who leave these sort of comments and go ott in the way the act will do regardless of if they find it on the umd or not

I don't see any "slander." I see a bunch of people calling out creepers for being creeps, but that's not slander, Chief.

"Have some empathy, you asshole!"

Well I guess slander was the wrong word. I guess I just didn't want to stir the nasty pot that's all. Creeps deserve to be called out, but I didn't want to bring them all out in the first place.

The thing is, there are creeps everywhere. It's not a problem with UMD, or with WAMmers as a whole. It's a problem with people; specifically, it's a problem shitty people with no respect for other people, other people's boundaries or even themselves.

The worst you've done by posting the video on here is letting a few maladjusted individuals see it, but plenty more will have likely already seen it before you posted, or seen it since through some other means than this thread. Her video and channel aren't difficult to find, after all. You see those kinds of comments on videos of this nature which have never been posted anywhere on UMD, or any other site - hence why I've said it's not a UMD or WAMmer issue. It's definitely worth confronting nevertheless.

On the other hand, you've also shown the video to plenty of normal enough people who just happen to like this sort of thing, and we all appreciate that. We just don't necessarily agree with your approach, but that's been made clear enough already.

oh, I wouldn't say that....

empathy: The ability to understand and share the feelings of another.

Has nothing to do with 'making a move on them'.

Finally, whilst your attitude is 'making a move on' suggesting dominance on your part over another person, you will never find a successful, fulfilling relationship.

Just my tuppenceworth

OK, last post on this thread from me!

Ant, is english your native language, because you either have major psychological problems or don't seem to understand basic concepts of the language, based on the posts that I see.

If you 'dominate' someone by 'making a move on them' they cannot also be dominating you (if you need it try dictionary.com !!)

Most people have a capacity for instinctive sympathy which produces feelings of self-conscious guilt when it comes to hassling other people. This doesn't seem to be a factor for you, which is very upsetting to many of us. So I'll try to explain it in a way that doesn't presume the existence of instinctive sympathy, but instead explains how it functions in a normal social life.

Suppose (and this is true) that everybody really hates to be creeped on. Suppose also that people appreciate it when their desires are reciprocated. Suppose, finally, that most people really hate to be seen as creeps. From this, it follows that if you act like a creep, and feel guilty about it and show remorse, people will at least appreciate that you're "on the same page", because they hate your creepiness too. On the other hand, if you act like a creep and don't feel guilty, then you're at an extreme disadvantage -- the worst possible scenario, because there won't be any factor that mitigates your creepiness.

So if you can't help but be a creep, the only way out is to find a romantic partner who is also a creep, and then learn to live with the result. But this result will be much less than optimal, because even creeps hate to be creeped on.

A much better option would be to develop some coping strategies that will help you to stop being a creep. That will require you to seek support from social workers and councilors who might be able to point you to resources that you might not have at the moment, and which this online community cannot provide.

My apologies - I had assumed someone such as yourself that operates on a much higher plane of intellectual existence than the rest of us (yes I have read your previous posts), would not need further embellishment of a simple and obvious statement, but it seems I was mistaken...

Front 1 - The girl (or victim) - do they lose out by not being subject to your unique and flawed understanding of why they are on this earth, do they lose out by being abused for the sole purpose of you proving that your "approach" is justifiable and in any way moral? Umm, I think not.

Front 2 - The UMD - us (or the witnesses) - do we lose out on not seeing the outcome of said approach - well, judging by how more people were creeped out by the short clip you did share than were turned on, I think this is one pie escapade that the majority of us could live without, so again, no, we are not losing out.

Front 3 - You, yourself (or the accused) - do you lose out by not succeeding in your warped and twisted plans, and proving us all wrong? Well maybe at first through your blinkered perspective, but if failure forces you to rethink and re-evaluate your entire approach to all things female, then maybe, just maybe, it will benefit you, so no, even you are not losing out.

I rest my case your honour.

Actually, to be fair, Ant wasn't the one who shared this clip.I started this thread out of intrigue alone after finding this short clip. Ant should be left accountable for his comments (both on the video itself and in this thread), but I was responsible for posting the video in the first place. If I had known it would turn into this, I would have never posted it... I'm sorry

"if I just talked to them I couldn't be a creep because being a creep I just wouldn't have the time of day to do

so when people say I'm a creep it makes me upset so I piss the people off on purpose like a game, for fun, because bored"

Maybe try listening to what others are telling you about how you are perceived rather than just insisting they must be wrong because you don't see yourself that way.

Its tough and it can hurt, but its important.

Threads like this... "who is the mystery person" is why we cant have nice things... The person in the video is clearing hiding their identity. Leave them alone about it...

It's always great being off the UMD for a few days 'causr of work, life, etc., and then coming back and seeing a thread like this. Its got everything.

The 'creep' factor is sadly never going to go away. Kudos to those of you trying. to talk some sense into him, but after awhile you just have to admit defeat.

And you wonder why people keep fet's hidden. Its not out of their own weirdness. It's more of the case of the screwballs making it seem like everyone into said fetish is Travis Bickle in waiting.

Ain't stereotyping grand?

I LOVE SNL movies!

AW2...yay! ...a Travis Bickle reference!

(a tad harsh though, eh?)

factoid: the famous "you talkin' to me?" scene in TD was completely improvised/unscripted

This is the problem. It should hurt -- at least a little. If it doesn't, something is wrong.

The downside of having instinctive sympathy with others is that you leave yourself vulnerable. OTOH, that instinct is also required for any genuine human connection.