hollandofchicago said: Actually, they go to Fetlife, which is far more hardcore on kink on every level than the UMD, because it's a better site for kink and people are generally more behaved. Women, I believe, leave this site because of the constant harassment and insane behavior by some of the members.
Well said Holland. Actually well said on both.
I find want you have to say is 100 % accurate. And is why I'm on 'Fet' far more than I'm on the UMD these days. The UMD is great for hardcore Messy Wam and is why I keep visting; but far too often there is a consistant lack of maturity, respect, and common sense among a much too large a portion of it's members. And is why I no longer post that many replies here. In short, there are too many whining adult children here. I left to join the rest of the grown ups in getting my Kink on. And yes, I've gotten my kink on in a big way. - Thanks.
If someone doesn't like want I just said,

Don't bother flooding this thread with your remarks. I'm not lissoning, I'm not watching, and I don't care.
but I will try to leave you with a word of encouragement, "That which doesn't breaks you, .. just makes you weirder".

"Those who mind don't matter and those who matter won't mind".